My chick is cooler than me.

[Keeper]

Ok ok... this is a stupid problem to have, I know, but it's still a problem.

I feel strange: my chicky (3 months) is cool. Skydiver extreme, life of any party, damn near celebrity from modeling, super hawt, rich, funny, etc etc etc. Yeah, she has alot of cool stuff going on in her life.

And I'm just an average Don Juan, in university, still living with parents, and who loves saturday morning cartoons.

Suddenly that song: "She's so high above me" comesto mind. *sighs* I'm seriously starting to feel, ehh... intimidated. I know she REALLY digs me, I've been trained to recognize tha - and I know I love her, coz, uh, she told me.

Keed, keed.

Right... so somone say something before I do something stupid.

 

[frivolousz21]

chill out..maybe she thinks ur average arse is cool

 

[Keeper]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
chill out..maybe she thinks ur average arse is cool

I am chilled!

Sh!t... I need a drink... is this behavoiur normal? For the last few days I've been bitter towards her... and I have no idea why... omgoodness.

 

[frivolousz21]

Sh!t... I need a drink... is this behavoiur normal? For the last few days I've been bitter towards her... and I have no idea why... omgoodness.

prolly some stress

try to unwind!

 

[Keeper]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
prolly some stress

try to unwind!

Might be... really worrying about my finals that are comming up soon. :-/

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

My girl used to be a boobie model in Japan, shes 5 years older than me, shes already majored and has worked full time.

NOTHING of that changes the fact, that the equilibrium of power is shifted strongly towards me in the relationship. Dont even think about it, shes with you isnt she?

 

[Drewgie]

I think you've lost sight of the #1 DJ principle. But don't worry, that happens to all of us now and then.

Stay focused on your ambitions. Do everything possible to be above average, no, superb at what you want to do with your life. If you have your own life, dreams, goals, and you work your damndest to achieve them she'll totally dig you, and continue to dig you even though she might be further ahead in her pursuits.

I know some will probably disagree with me on this but the DJ's objective is NOT to just get women. It's to be the best, most confident and self-fulfilled man you can be. The women are icing on the cake, and will be naturally attracted to you as a result of your hard work. Furthermore, as you succeed in achieving your own goals and dreams confidence with women will come a lot easier.

Bottom line: who cares if your girl is "cooler" than you. Just keep doing your thing and portray yourself as the prize. Cos you are

 

[Keeper]

Originally posted by Drewgie
I think you've lost sight of the #1 DJ principle. But don't worry, that happens to all of us now and then.

Stay focused on your ambitions. Do everything possible to be above average, no, superb at what you want to do with your life. If you have your own life, dreams, goals, and you work your damndest to achieve them she'll totally dig you, and continue to dig you even though she might be further ahead in her pursuits.

I know some will probably disagree with me on this but the DJ's objective is NOT to just get women. It's to be the best, most confident and self-fulfilled man you can be. The women are icing on the cake, and will be naturally attracted to you as a result of your hard work. Furthermore, as you succeed in achieving your own goals and dreams confidence with women will come a lot easier.

Bottom line: who cares if your girl is "cooler" than you. Just keep doing your thing and portray yourself as the prize. Cos you are

Awww.. thanks! But damn... now I need tissues!



Yeh, I must stop letting her dominate my state of mind... otherwise I'm just handing over my balls on a plate.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Bottom line: who cares if your girl is "cooler" than you.

No actually thats the wrong way to see it, the right way is "Cooler than me....!!??"

 

[Climax]

Listen up!

It is not about what u do, if your also super hot, or any of that sh!t... its about YOU.... and obviously there is something about YOU that she likes/loves.... So kick the intimidation out the door, kick the jealousy out the door, kick the "oh she deserves better than me" out the f*cking door, cause she is with YOU for a reason. She KNOWS she can get some other rich jock, but she still stays with YOU. To me, this is what LOVE is, that she will love u, no matter what. And you need to remember, just because ur not rich, doesn’t make u unworthy of her. Just because ur not a super model, doesn’t make u unworthy of her. Just because you don’t do any extreme sports etc, does NOT make u unworthy of her. Its WHO YOU are that has already proven that you ARE worthy of her, and its her being who SHE is, that makes her worthy of YOU.

Good quality guys are hard to find in the days of today, and maybe she just see's u as a good quality guy, that she happens to be in love with. So what’s the problem? I dont see a problem, do YOU see a problem? ... I should hope not.


Laterz...

 

[frivolousz21]

It is not about what u do, if your also super hot, or any of that sh!t... its about YOU.... and obviously there is something about YOU that she likes/loves.... So kick the intimidation out the door, kick the jealousy out the door, kick the "oh she deserves better than me" out the f*cking door, cause she is with YOU for a reason. She KNOWS she can get some other rich jock, but she still stays with YOU. To me, this is what LOVE is, that she will love u, no matter what. And you need to remember, just because ur not rich, doesn’t make u unworthy of her. Just because ur not a super model, doesn’t make u unworthy of her. Just because you don’t do any extreme sports etc, does NOT make u unworthy of her. Its WHO YOU are that has already proven that you ARE worthy of her, and its her being who SHE is, that makes her worthy of YOU.

great post

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
great post

Why thank you


Laterz...

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by Keeper
Ok ok... this is a stupid problem to have, I know, but it's still a problem.

I feel strange: my chicky (3 months) is cool. Skydiver extreme, life of any party, damn near celebrity from modeling, super hawt, rich, funny, etc etc etc. Yeah, she has alot of cool stuff going on in her life.

And I'm just an average Don Juan, in university, still living with parents, and who loves saturday morning cartoons.

Suddenly that song: "She's so high above me" comesto mind. *sighs* I'm seriously starting to feel, ehh... intimidated. I know she REALLY digs me, I've been trained to recognize tha - and I know I love her, coz, uh, she told me.

Keed, keed.

Right... so somone say something before I do something stupid.

Get over it or find another chick that has no money, no life, and has a few friends.
Something you can handle

 

[italostud]

Re: Re: My chick is cooler than me.

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Get over it or find another chick that has no money, no life, and has a few friends.
Something you can handle

Lol

Just know that in general, women marry/date up . Meaning, they usually seek out men of higher social status(meaning wealth, power, etc) than themselves when they're looking to settle down. Of course it's not a hard and fast rule, but I've seen it enough times to know that this generalization isn't that far off the mark.

 

[Climax]

italostud: Those are called Gold diggers


Laterz...

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by ~��Q��T�$~
italostud: Those are called Gold diggers


Laterz...

Nah man, it's just social dynamics. Golddiggers are something completely different.

 

[frivolousz21]

Just know that in general, women marry/date up . Meaning, they usually seek out men of higher social status(meaning wealth, power, etc) than themselves when they're looking to settle down. Of course it's not a hard and fast rule, but I've seen it enough times to know that this generalization isn't that far off the mark.

I agree to an extent.

but there good women out there who want you for what you are on the inside(inner game)....he seems to have found one..which is a good thing.

dont leave her.

 

[Drewgie]

Ya know, I take back my first reply.

She IS too good for you. Send her digits my way. I wouldn't mind skydiving with her, among other things