"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)

Master of the Universe

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Good afternoon gentlemen,

I'm sure few posters here know me, since I originally came to this board about 8 years ago, and have not been posting for the last five years (I was busy moonlighting in a couple of LTRs.)

At any rate, I suppose those that recognize my screen name know me as the guy who put together to original Don Juan Boot Camp ten billion years ago. And while I'm very proud of that particular work, I 'm honestly surprised that even till now it's still in use.

But the reason that I am posting this message right now is to issue a challenge. No, no, no, it's not one of those pathetic challenges that pop up every once in a while from a "guru" hawking his wares challenging the best guy on SoSuave to a competition.

No, this is a much more intimate and personal challenge, one that will have a PROFOUND effect on your life - one that will take your confidence and skills to another level.

A little background first...

A few days ago I replied to a thread where the original poster basically hates his life, at least when it comes to the issue of women. He's sick and tired of not getting anywhere. I think we can all relate (at least I know I can), otherwise I doubt we would have come this board in the first place.

My reply to this gentleman was the congratulate him, because I frankly do not believe that a person can be ready for massive change in his life until the pain, anger, and sorrow become so overwhelming that he is ready to do whatever it takes to overcome, no matter what price needs to be paid or what pain needs to be endured.

I told this particular poster that while I do not yet believe he has hit bottom, that he is getting close, and to send a private message when he has, and I will tell him what to do at that point to immediately jump-start his game.

What I had not expected (though in hindsight I suppose that I should have), was that other guys on this board would send me PMs telling me that they are sick and tired of being where they are, and that they are ready to follow my instructions to the letter.

Originally I thought about providing this information to them one at a time, but an idea came to me. Why not post this challenge not just for them, but for every one on this board, and make it into a community project, somewhat similar to what I did with the original boot camp.

When I first came up with the DJ Boot Camp, I designed it for me. It was only as an afterthought that I decided to share it with the rest of the board, and the results were even better than I had hoped or expected.

Now what is it that I am proposing?

Well, I am not yet ready to share it. The main reason is that I first want to know if there is enough interest. I'm very busy with work right now, and am planning shortly on leaving for a one-year trip around the world, so I don't want to commit my time and energy to something that few guys find of interest.

What I will say though that if the original Boot Camp was a course on swimming, where first I taught you how to breath, how move your arms and feet, then slowly taking you to the three feet of water and practicing, etc., what I propose is the equivalent of me pushing you in the deep end of the pool.

It's a lot more painful, scarier, and will take you out of your comfort zone, whether you've never been on a date or can bang chicks like a porn star.

Again, let me make this clear - IT WILL BE SCARY!

BUT, at the very least, if you complete the mission, your confidence will increase by a minimum of 100%, and quite likely much higher. Think of it as the DJ Boot Camp on steroids - one day that will change your life forever.

This isn't theory either, I went through the same challenge early on in my SoSuave career, and the effect it had on my life and success blew me away.

So if you're still reading, then I believe a part of you already knows that this may be for you. If so, then reply to this post, and tell me that you are interested. At this point you are not committing anything other than interest.

If 10 or more guys express interest, then I will take the time to write up a detailed post explaining this event, and at that point you can make your final decision as to whether you choose to participate.

I look forward to seeing if there is enough interest,

MotU
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lexington

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I'm not at rock bottom and in the last 6 odd months, my success has improved dramatically from where I was before. But I still have LOTS of room for improvement. I've been getting too comfortable lately and I need to push my boundaries. I'm interested.
 

Accension

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I'd like to take it on.
Recently I started my own project in the form of a video: How would you live if you wanted to die.
It basically came as an idea to potentially beat any suicidal thoughts for myself and others.

So far I've approached women with "Hello my name is Accension and this is all the bad things about me.", jumped off bridges, initiated fights with anyone and everyone, gone train surfing, tried to buy heroin simply for the experience, attempted dangerous stunts at the skate-park, had sex going down a water slide and a ton of other things people simply wouldn't do in their lives.

The idea is to live 100% to the extent of wanting to continue living by the end.
I've been filming it with hidden cameras and microphones from spychest.com and the project is a HUGE success.

I plan to film this and when it's ready, release the whole movie on youtube. The footage is simply amazing.
 

Cure

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Im interested.

Im currently starting a blog detailing a year in my sex life as a way to motivate myself, Im willing to try anything.

Cure.
 

Brighty

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Sounds interesting, it's been a while since I've done any sort of SoSuave group bootcamp. I'm curious as to what this is all about.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Strat

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Hell yes. I respond well to sink or swim situations, that's how I learned guitar. I'll give it a shot.
 

I'm in the Mood

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I'm in.

I have only made 4 cold approaches in my life.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
I'm in.

I have only made 4 cold approaches in my life.

I hope everyone just read that correctly!

After all of the advice I have seen this young guy give, who would have known that all of it is invalid and full of inexperienced assumptions
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scion

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I'm at least interested enough to give it a read.

Though to be completely honest I've stopped caring whether or not I become an expert with women. I'd rather have fun with my life and if I learn to bang women left and right than great, that's a plus.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol at rescue mission.. Eh give him a break he's only 17 so by the tine he's 21 hopefully his game and life will be alot better..

Also I'm interested in what this guy has to say. Just know I'm not jumping out no plane or nothing stupid like that lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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