"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My challenge to you! (1 day to double your success)

Master of the Universe

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Good afternoon gentlemen,

I'm sure few posters here know me, since I originally came to this board about 8 years ago, and have not been posting for the last five years (I was busy moonlighting in a couple of LTRs.)

At any rate, I suppose those that recognize my screen name know me as the guy who put together to original Don Juan Boot Camp ten billion years ago. And while I'm very proud of that particular work, I 'm honestly surprised that even till now it's still in use.

But the reason that I am posting this message right now is to issue a challenge. No, no, no, it's not one of those pathetic challenges that pop up every once in a while from a "guru" hawking his wares challenging the best guy on SoSuave to a competition.

No, this is a much more intimate and personal challenge, one that will have a PROFOUND effect on your life - one that will take your confidence and skills to another level.

A little background first...

A few days ago I replied to a thread where the original poster basically hates his life, at least when it comes to the issue of women. He's sick and tired of not getting anywhere. I think we can all relate (at least I know I can), otherwise I doubt we would have come this board in the first place.

My reply to this gentleman was the congratulate him, because I frankly do not believe that a person can be ready for massive change in his life until the pain, anger, and sorrow become so overwhelming that he is ready to do whatever it takes to overcome, no matter what price needs to be paid or what pain needs to be endured.

I told this particular poster that while I do not yet believe he has hit bottom, that he is getting close, and to send a private message when he has, and I will tell him what to do at that point to immediately jump-start his game.

What I had not expected (though in hindsight I suppose that I should have), was that other guys on this board would send me PMs telling me that they are sick and tired of being where they are, and that they are ready to follow my instructions to the letter.

Originally I thought about providing this information to them one at a time, but an idea came to me. Why not post this challenge not just for them, but for every one on this board, and make it into a community project, somewhat similar to what I did with the original boot camp.

When I first came up with the DJ Boot Camp, I designed it for me. It was only as an afterthought that I decided to share it with the rest of the board, and the results were even better than I had hoped or expected.

Now what is it that I am proposing?

Well, I am not yet ready to share it. The main reason is that I first want to know if there is enough interest. I'm very busy with work right now, and am planning shortly on leaving for a one-year trip around the world, so I don't want to commit my time and energy to something that few guys find of interest.

What I will say though that if the original Boot Camp was a course on swimming, where first I taught you how to breath, how move your arms and feet, then slowly taking you to the three feet of water and practicing, etc., what I propose is the equivalent of me pushing you in the deep end of the pool.

It's a lot more painful, scarier, and will take you out of your comfort zone, whether you've never been on a date or can bang chicks like a porn star.

Again, let me make this clear - IT WILL BE SCARY!

BUT, at the very least, if you complete the mission, your confidence will increase by a minimum of 100%, and quite likely much higher. Think of it as the DJ Boot Camp on steroids - one day that will change your life forever.

This isn't theory either, I went through the same challenge early on in my SoSuave career, and the effect it had on my life and success blew me away.

So if you're still reading, then I believe a part of you already knows that this may be for you. If so, then reply to this post, and tell me that you are interested. At this point you are not committing anything other than interest.

If 10 or more guys express interest, then I will take the time to write up a detailed post explaining this event, and at that point you can make your final decision as to whether you choose to participate.

I look forward to seeing if there is enough interest,

MotU
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lexington

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I'm not at rock bottom and in the last 6 odd months, my success has improved dramatically from where I was before. But I still have LOTS of room for improvement. I've been getting too comfortable lately and I need to push my boundaries. I'm interested.
 

Accension

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I'd like to take it on.
Recently I started my own project in the form of a video: How would you live if you wanted to die.
It basically came as an idea to potentially beat any suicidal thoughts for myself and others.

So far I've approached women with "Hello my name is Accension and this is all the bad things about me.", jumped off bridges, initiated fights with anyone and everyone, gone train surfing, tried to buy heroin simply for the experience, attempted dangerous stunts at the skate-park, had sex going down a water slide and a ton of other things people simply wouldn't do in their lives.

The idea is to live 100% to the extent of wanting to continue living by the end.
I've been filming it with hidden cameras and microphones from spychest.com and the project is a HUGE success.

I plan to film this and when it's ready, release the whole movie on youtube. The footage is simply amazing.
 

Cure

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Im interested.

Im currently starting a blog detailing a year in my sex life as a way to motivate myself, Im willing to try anything.

Cure.
 

Brighty

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Sounds interesting, it's been a while since I've done any sort of SoSuave group bootcamp. I'm curious as to what this is all about.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strat

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Hell yes. I respond well to sink or swim situations, that's how I learned guitar. I'll give it a shot.
 

I'm in the Mood

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I'm in.

I have only made 4 cold approaches in my life.
 
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I'm in the Mood said:
I'm in.

I have only made 4 cold approaches in my life.

I hope everyone just read that correctly!

After all of the advice I have seen this young guy give, who would have known that all of it is invalid and full of inexperienced assumptions
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Scion

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I'm at least interested enough to give it a read.

Though to be completely honest I've stopped caring whether or not I become an expert with women. I'd rather have fun with my life and if I learn to bang women left and right than great, that's a plus.
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol at rescue mission.. Eh give him a break he's only 17 so by the tine he's 21 hopefully his game and life will be alot better..

Also I'm interested in what this guy has to say. Just know I'm not jumping out no plane or nothing stupid like that lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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