"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MY car
- Thread starter sexy_kuta
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
i honestly dont see why people put lots of time into cars that are big, slow, and cant turn or stop well.
it is a lot more unique tho, and props to you for doing it.
and if you did the work yourself then you get a lot of respect in my book.
well im turning it into a low rider and itsn ot slow man the thing gots some balls.. for a heavy car.. mine puts out 240 at the wheels but i dont speed so it doesnt concern me..Big Eee Zee said:
and thanks. yea i did all the body work my self.. its alot of time consuming
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
And neither would I, if you pulled up behind me. I'd slow my ass down to the speed limit, cuz I wouldn't want a ticket.sexy_kuta said:
I would have gone for the Caprice or the Caprice-based Impala myself.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://www.earjoy.com/aw2k/LotImg6786.jpg
and some cop glasses:
http://i14.ebayimg.com/03/i/02/57/b7/9c_1.JPG
and a German Shepherd Dog to complete the look:
http://www.petfinder.com/fotos/NY64/NY64.4271441-1-x.jpg
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.