"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Car and Room = ****blockers!

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Hey Guys,

I have a very serious problem on my hand. My DJ skills is pretty good (not great, not shabby). Anyway, last week I am out with this Asian chick, everything was going great. Towards the end the night, she got into my car, and I drove her home. We walk up to her place and she suddenly got COLD, said goodnight and that's was it! No kissing (despite us making out like monkeys in the club), no smiling, zero, nappa, nothing, zip ....

I was ****ting in my pants. WTF happened? Fastforward to Sunday: I was having lunch with her friend and I asked her: What was that all about?

Her friend told me that the chick did not like my car. She was turned off by it. The friend said that the chick thinks it was too plain, which is true. I drive a 98 Corolla. Nothing wrong with the car, except that there's nothing inside (no decoration) with respect to the interior. No ornaments, no nothing ... Anyone got some advices?

Anyway, I dated this one Hispanic chick a long time ago and she said the samething about my room. My room, like my car, is pretty plain. She said the car/room doesn't have any personality. Anyone got some advices?

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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italostud

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Stop dating superficial/spoiled bytches.
 

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tell the ***** to buy you some shyt. I can understand the one about the room if your living with padded walls, but the car? wtf, does she expect a christmas tree in the passengar seat? id take her out one more time, and see what happens, the decide if u should next
 

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Originally posted by negativefcf


Her friend told me that the chick did not like my car. She was turned off by it. The friend said that the chick thinks it was too plain, which is true. I drive a 98 Corolla. Nothing wrong with the car, except that there's nothing inside (no decoration) with respect to the interior. No ornaments, no nothing ... Anyone got some advices?

Anyway, I dated this one Hispanic chick a long time ago and she said the samething about my room. My room, like my car, is pretty plain. She said the car/room doesn't have any personality. Anyone got some advices?

Thanks
Translation: "I like you but not enough to take it further physically, so I'll use anything lame I can come up with."

If these chix were totally into you and thought you were the greating thing and were desperately seeking your approval, do you think they would mind what you drove or what your room looked like? I think not.

The chick who was in your car was having buyer's remorse. She couldn't find enough reasons to justify making out with you in the club and not making it seem like she was a slut, no rationalization, so she came up with that. Most chicks will get cold the next time you try to call them. This one changed her mind a lot faster. Be grateful that you won't waste any extra time on her, and make sure you make them be totally into you before you reward them with letting them make out with you.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Stop dating superficial/spoiled bytches.
Amen to that.

Just because you don't drive a lambo or live at worthington estates is no excuse for snooty b*tches.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I disagree with your car/room being a ****blocker. *ANY* Excuse on her going further equals *NO INTEREST*

Anyways. What happens in a club, stays in the club. You thought that making out in the club would make her into your instant girlfriend? Wrong bro.
 

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The Asian chick did NOT tell me it was the car. One of her friend told me indirectly. I haven;t talk to the b*tch in awhile..


I am just saying ... how do you fellas decorate your car and room so that it has "personality."
 

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Originally posted by negativefcf
The Asian chick did NOT tell me it was the car. One of her friend told me indirectly. I haven;t talk to the b*tch in awhile..


I am just saying ... how do you fellas decorate your car and room so that it has "personality."
That's not going to make your problem go away. What will make your problem go away, is just not taking those superficial nutjobs seriously. Fixing up your car and room for chicks is a band-aid. If you're going to fix them up, do it for yourself.

Hell, I've gotten less-lame results than that while owning a 1987 Honda Civic Wagovan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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next time she is in ur car..tell her to clean her ass..so she doenst get ur seats dirty!
 

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Hey man, if it seems crazy it probably is crazy, you're trying you change yourself for some crazy girls opinion. Think about it.

Maybe the next girl wont like a whole bunch fo random decorations hanging around your car and get turned off by THAT. Interesting to consider huh?

Here is my advice and what has worked for me.

Add a subtle touch, that will = class, be interesting and different, and be a converation piece.

I hang an ornate bandana with a few beads on the end from my rear view mirror. I tell girls it reminds me of my dedication to the sports team I run and explain how and why it's so important to me. They respond in two ways, thinking it's lame and I get the "OMG" or thinking it's interesting. Funny part is that the ones who thinks it's lame find it interesting LATER because it's something I'm deeply passionate about.
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo

I hang an ornate bandana with a few beads on the end from my rear view mirror. I tell girls it reminds me of my dedication to the sports team I run and explain how and why it's so important to me. They respond in two ways, thinking it's lame and I get the "OMG" or thinking it's interesting. Funny part is that the ones who thinks it's lame find it interesting LATER because it's something I'm deeply passionate about.
Lol At first i thought u said that you hang an ornate BANANA from your rear view mirror.
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo
Actually that's not a bad idea considering the implication...lol
LOL
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I drive a Subaru 04' WRX STi, and have no problems. In fact, it helps my game tremendously.
 
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