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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My Car and Room = ****blockers!

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Hey Guys,

I have a very serious problem on my hand. My DJ skills is pretty good (not great, not shabby). Anyway, last week I am out with this Asian chick, everything was going great. Towards the end the night, she got into my car, and I drove her home. We walk up to her place and she suddenly got COLD, said goodnight and that's was it! No kissing (despite us making out like monkeys in the club), no smiling, zero, nappa, nothing, zip ....

I was ****ting in my pants. WTF happened? Fastforward to Sunday: I was having lunch with her friend and I asked her: What was that all about?

Her friend told me that the chick did not like my car. She was turned off by it. The friend said that the chick thinks it was too plain, which is true. I drive a 98 Corolla. Nothing wrong with the car, except that there's nothing inside (no decoration) with respect to the interior. No ornaments, no nothing ... Anyone got some advices?

Anyway, I dated this one Hispanic chick a long time ago and she said the samething about my room. My room, like my car, is pretty plain. She said the car/room doesn't have any personality. Anyone got some advices?

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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italostud

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Stop dating superficial/spoiled bytches.
 

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tell the ***** to buy you some shyt. I can understand the one about the room if your living with padded walls, but the car? wtf, does she expect a christmas tree in the passengar seat? id take her out one more time, and see what happens, the decide if u should next
 

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Originally posted by negativefcf


Her friend told me that the chick did not like my car. She was turned off by it. The friend said that the chick thinks it was too plain, which is true. I drive a 98 Corolla. Nothing wrong with the car, except that there's nothing inside (no decoration) with respect to the interior. No ornaments, no nothing ... Anyone got some advices?

Anyway, I dated this one Hispanic chick a long time ago and she said the samething about my room. My room, like my car, is pretty plain. She said the car/room doesn't have any personality. Anyone got some advices?

Thanks
Translation: "I like you but not enough to take it further physically, so I'll use anything lame I can come up with."

If these chix were totally into you and thought you were the greating thing and were desperately seeking your approval, do you think they would mind what you drove or what your room looked like? I think not.

The chick who was in your car was having buyer's remorse. She couldn't find enough reasons to justify making out with you in the club and not making it seem like she was a slut, no rationalization, so she came up with that. Most chicks will get cold the next time you try to call them. This one changed her mind a lot faster. Be grateful that you won't waste any extra time on her, and make sure you make them be totally into you before you reward them with letting them make out with you.
 

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Originally posted by italostud
Stop dating superficial/spoiled bytches.
Amen to that.

Just because you don't drive a lambo or live at worthington estates is no excuse for snooty b*tches.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I disagree with your car/room being a ****blocker. *ANY* Excuse on her going further equals *NO INTEREST*

Anyways. What happens in a club, stays in the club. You thought that making out in the club would make her into your instant girlfriend? Wrong bro.
 

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The Asian chick did NOT tell me it was the car. One of her friend told me indirectly. I haven;t talk to the b*tch in awhile..


I am just saying ... how do you fellas decorate your car and room so that it has "personality."
 

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Originally posted by negativefcf
The Asian chick did NOT tell me it was the car. One of her friend told me indirectly. I haven;t talk to the b*tch in awhile..


I am just saying ... how do you fellas decorate your car and room so that it has "personality."
That's not going to make your problem go away. What will make your problem go away, is just not taking those superficial nutjobs seriously. Fixing up your car and room for chicks is a band-aid. If you're going to fix them up, do it for yourself.

Hell, I've gotten less-lame results than that while owning a 1987 Honda Civic Wagovan.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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next time she is in ur car..tell her to clean her ass..so she doenst get ur seats dirty!
 

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Hey man, if it seems crazy it probably is crazy, you're trying you change yourself for some crazy girls opinion. Think about it.

Maybe the next girl wont like a whole bunch fo random decorations hanging around your car and get turned off by THAT. Interesting to consider huh?

Here is my advice and what has worked for me.

Add a subtle touch, that will = class, be interesting and different, and be a converation piece.

I hang an ornate bandana with a few beads on the end from my rear view mirror. I tell girls it reminds me of my dedication to the sports team I run and explain how and why it's so important to me. They respond in two ways, thinking it's lame and I get the "OMG" or thinking it's interesting. Funny part is that the ones who thinks it's lame find it interesting LATER because it's something I'm deeply passionate about.
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo

I hang an ornate bandana with a few beads on the end from my rear view mirror. I tell girls it reminds me of my dedication to the sports team I run and explain how and why it's so important to me. They respond in two ways, thinking it's lame and I get the "OMG" or thinking it's interesting. Funny part is that the ones who thinks it's lame find it interesting LATER because it's something I'm deeply passionate about.
Lol At first i thought u said that you hang an ornate BANANA from your rear view mirror.
 

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Originally posted by Qmanchoo
Actually that's not a bad idea considering the implication...lol
LOL
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I drive a Subaru 04' WRX STi, and have no problems. In fact, it helps my game tremendously.
 
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