"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my boys ina tight spot with his gf...i can't help thou.

Patrick124

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My boy has been dating his girl for like 6 monthes now. He used ot be infatuated with ehr, but jsut recently he and I had the craziest weekend ever in Canada and he came to the conclusion that theres other better girls out there and he needs to taste em with the time he has left in highschool..
he wnats to dump her, btu he's too scared to hurt ehr that much, she like LOVES him.
SO ehs treated ehr like **** alil lately to try n get her to dump him...and she dropped a bomb on him today. apparently she jsut started cutting again.
I told him flat out "you need to end that. that chicks a mind-fvck and you dont need that sh*t"
but now hes freaked. She used to threaten to kill herself over him if he dumped her. But then she woudl play all these games like "Sometimes i think we'd be better as friends."...now he feels liek eh can't dump her, or she might kill herself.

The girls cool and all, but a complete b!tch of a girlfriend. any tips for my boy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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He should let her off easy. Don't worry, she won't do ****. And if she does, she deserved to die anyway.

This problem will only get worse, so cut it off NOW.
 

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Wow, sounds like a very intersting relationship they're building up. End it, the sooner the better.
 

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she dumped him because she could tell he didn't wnat to be in the relationship.
she went to school with some bigass scabs on her wrists apparently. but shes living.
haha thanks guys.
 
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