"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"my boyfriend just left me"

baurman

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whats the best way to game a chick that tells you this? i kinda was told this a while back but wasn't sure what to say...

basically she was on the phone and I said
"boyfriend texting you?"
and she's like "no...my boyfriend just broke up with me last weeK"
so I say, really? is there anything i can do to make you feel better? let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.

but she didn't she ended up just walking away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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The best way is to play on her emotions by seeing if you can get her to hang out with you alone somewhere, where you can isolate her and make your move when she is most vulnerable and willing to sex you up to make her pain go away.

That said never go after a relationship with a chick who just got dumped.

You will be made the rebound guy, she will use you up to feel better and once her emotions have cleared surrounding her past relationship it will be you who is left in the dump.

These chicks who just got out of relationships are a fvck and a chuck at best.

Remember that.
 

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Nice post, KontrollerX.
 

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baurman said:
whats the best way to game a chick that tells you this? i kinda was told this a while back but wasn't sure what to say...

basically she was on the phone and I said
1."boyfriend texting you?"
and she's like "no...my boyfriend just broke up with me last weeK"
2.so I say, really? is there anything i can do to make you feel better? let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.

but she didn't she ended up just walking away.
What you said were all wrong .

Mistake nr .1 :

Why the heck should you stick your nose who's texting her ?
If she wants you to know she has BF , she will bring it up . Until that , she's giving you green light .

Mistake nr.2 :

CAN I DO ANYTHING TO MAKE YOU BETTER ?
You're not here to entertain you . You're giving her value . You're giving her choice . No need for this .

let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.

Now you literally said to her OK , YOU DONT HAVE BF , IM NEEDY AND IM PLANNING TO FVCK YOU . Thats what you said , you just used AFC words .



My way , what would i do

If i accidentally asked her if she's texting with BF , and she brings up she just got dumped , i would say just OH , OK and continue with something else . Change the topic . Make her laugh and sh1t than just say to her , gimme you're number and well get in touch one day :D .

KontrollerX said:
You will be made the rebound guy, she will use you up to feel better and once her emotions have cleared surrounding her past relationship it will be you who is left in the dump.
Totally true , but i would use that token that i got from case to have sex with her at least once :D . Im sure OP would do it to :D
 
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