"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"my boyfriend just left me"

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whats the best way to game a chick that tells you this? i kinda was told this a while back but wasn't sure what to say...

basically she was on the phone and I said
"boyfriend texting you?"
and she's like "no...my boyfriend just broke up with me last weeK"
so I say, really? is there anything i can do to make you feel better? let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.

but she didn't she ended up just walking away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The best way is to play on her emotions by seeing if you can get her to hang out with you alone somewhere, where you can isolate her and make your move when she is most vulnerable and willing to sex you up to make her pain go away.

That said never go after a relationship with a chick who just got dumped.

You will be made the rebound guy, she will use you up to feel better and once her emotions have cleared surrounding her past relationship it will be you who is left in the dump.

These chicks who just got out of relationships are a fvck and a chuck at best.

Remember that.
 
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Nice post, KontrollerX.
 
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baurman said:
whats the best way to game a chick that tells you this? i kinda was told this a while back but wasn't sure what to say...

basically she was on the phone and I said
1."boyfriend texting you?"
and she's like "no...my boyfriend just broke up with me last weeK"
2.so I say, really? is there anything i can do to make you feel better? let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.

but she didn't she ended up just walking away.
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What you said were all wrong .

Mistake nr .1 :

Why the heck should you stick your nose who's texting her ?
If she wants you to know she has BF , she will bring it up . Until that , she's giving you green light .

Mistake nr.2 :

CAN I DO ANYTHING TO MAKE YOU BETTER ?
You're not here to entertain you . You're giving her value . You're giving her choice . No need for this .

let me get your number and we can go grab somethin to eat sometime.
Now you literally said to her OK , YOU DONT HAVE BF , IM NEEDY AND IM PLANNING TO FVCK YOU . Thats what you said , you just used AFC words .



My way , what would i do

If i accidentally asked her if she's texting with BF , and she brings up she just got dumped , i would say just OH , OK and continue with something else . Change the topic . Make her laugh and sh1t than just say to her , gimme you're number and well get in touch one day :D .

KontrollerX said:
You will be made the rebound guy, she will use you up to feel better and once her emotions have cleared surrounding her past relationship it will be you who is left in the dump.
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Totally true , but i would use that token that i got from case to have sex with her at least once :D . Im sure OP would do it to :D
 
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