This situation can be extremely challenging. Whether you should talk to this man or not would depend on the man. Even though he is confident and successful, the reality is that he is as human as the rest of us. 14 years isn't easy to let go and give up on, and it would appear that he was seriously committed the entire marriage. He may not be receptive at all to anything you have to say. It may take some time for the emotional sting to wear off before he will be open to any advice along the lines of not falling into the trap of practically begging.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My boss is chasing/tryin to win back wife that cheated, Should I advise?
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