"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ThePrize

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Hello guys,

I need to overcome my inability and fear concerning interaction with people, especially the beautiful girls. It's hard for me to have a long conversation with someone I just met or even otherwise.

What I don't need is more reading material, because I believe I've read almost everything out there. This is not even to get laid, even though I'm a virgin. My primary reason is to overcome this "fear" that might cripple my life in other areas as well.

Ones before did I start at the bootcamp, but I quit after the first week! I'm hoping your support and my determination will result in a better outcome this time.

Ok, here are my specs:

I am 18 years old, live in Holland and go to college.

My looks are not bad, I'm tall 6"2 and weigh 160 pounds.

I have my own appartment. Ride my bicycle.

Week 1 starts today, I will keep you posted.:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThePrize

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Week 1 Day 6

Today I started doing the excersises for week 1. For those of you that do not know yet what they conclude, thes are the excersises:

-On two seperate outings,lasting 1 hour each, I must make eye-contact with whomever I pass by. I will try to not look away untill the other person does.

-Say hi to 50 people.

I just came back home from my first 1-hour-outing and said hi to 6 people so far during the process. It was not hard for me to do the eye-contact thing. Saying hi troubled me more. Because most people don't even look you in the eye at all. From the 6 people I said hi to, only about 3 said it back. Maybe I look scary or something..I was dressed in black..

Anyways I will have the rest of today and tomorrow for finishing up the excersises for this week, so time is a little short. Next post will be tomorrow.
 

Rasputin

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Good luck mate! I've just begun the DJ Boot Camp too. So have fun owning this challenges :)

Rasputin
 
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