Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ThePrize

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Hello guys,

I need to overcome my inability and fear concerning interaction with people, especially the beautiful girls. It's hard for me to have a long conversation with someone I just met or even otherwise.

What I don't need is more reading material, because I believe I've read almost everything out there. This is not even to get laid, even though I'm a virgin. My primary reason is to overcome this "fear" that might cripple my life in other areas as well.

Ones before did I start at the bootcamp, but I quit after the first week! I'm hoping your support and my determination will result in a better outcome this time.

Ok, here are my specs:

I am 18 years old, live in Holland and go to college.

My looks are not bad, I'm tall 6"2 and weigh 160 pounds.

I have my own appartment. Ride my bicycle.

Week 1 starts today, I will keep you posted.:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ThePrize

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Week 1 Day 6

Today I started doing the excersises for week 1. For those of you that do not know yet what they conclude, thes are the excersises:

-On two seperate outings,lasting 1 hour each, I must make eye-contact with whomever I pass by. I will try to not look away untill the other person does.

-Say hi to 50 people.

I just came back home from my first 1-hour-outing and said hi to 6 people so far during the process. It was not hard for me to do the eye-contact thing. Saying hi troubled me more. Because most people don't even look you in the eye at all. From the 6 people I said hi to, only about 3 said it back. Maybe I look scary or something..I was dressed in black..

Anyways I will have the rest of today and tomorrow for finishing up the excersises for this week, so time is a little short. Next post will be tomorrow.
 

Rasputin

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Good luck mate! I've just begun the DJ Boot Camp too. So have fun owning this challenges :)

Rasputin
 
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