"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My black ego is killing my game

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JPlaya

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Today I was going to sit by this girl at breakfast, but I was like what if she doesn't like black guys. I finally had the guts to do it, but she started studying for some test.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tsarquise

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I feel you man... When I want to talk to white girls, I feel the same way. I suddenly have this self image of my self that I'm a thug or something. It sucks.
 

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I know man, and I don't even dress like a typical black guy. I wear mainly Lacoste, brook brothers, vineyard vines, and ralph lauren crap.
 

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The clothes I wear do stem a little bit more from black culture... But I guess the only thing we can do is just push the image out of our head. I feel more comfortable around a girl from any other ethnic group... but when it comes to white girls....
 

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Hahaha you could tease her about how she talks. Some white girls tend to make their pitch go up at the end of every sentence... lol it's annoying.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JPlaya, for the love of God, please stop making threads, they're annoying. You make a thread asking stupid ass questions, plus you make a thread over the most irrelevant bullshit. I'm Black too but my race never hinders me when I talk to any non-black girl. Stop being an insecure phaggot and drop your nuts. Either you're an unfunny troll that's trying too hard or you seriously don't get it.

Read the DJ Bible, go talk to females, pull numbers, get pussy, and live life. It's just that simple. I only come on here every blue moon now and it's the same ol bs. Smh.
 
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