"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My black ego is killing my game

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Today I was going to sit by this girl at breakfast, but I was like what if she doesn't like black guys. I finally had the guts to do it, but she started studying for some test.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel you man... When I want to talk to white girls, I feel the same way. I suddenly have this self image of my self that I'm a thug or something. It sucks.
 
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I know man, and I don't even dress like a typical black guy. I wear mainly Lacoste, brook brothers, vineyard vines, and ralph lauren crap.
 
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The clothes I wear do stem a little bit more from black culture... But I guess the only thing we can do is just push the image out of our head. I feel more comfortable around a girl from any other ethnic group... but when it comes to white girls....
 
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Hahaha you could tease her about how she talks. Some white girls tend to make their pitch go up at the end of every sentence... lol it's annoying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JPlaya, for the love of God, please stop making threads, they're annoying. You make a thread asking stupid ass questions, plus you make a thread over the most irrelevant bullshit. I'm Black too but my race never hinders me when I talk to any non-black girl. Stop being an insecure phaggot and drop your nuts. Either you're an unfunny troll that's trying too hard or you seriously don't get it.

Read the DJ Bible, go talk to females, pull numbers, get pussy, and live life. It's just that simple. I only come on here every blue moon now and it's the same ol bs. Smh.
 
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