"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my birthday

mrsuave004

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Whats going on fellas. This is my first post and it is a bit on the afc side but it is a question that has been on my mind. I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now and my birthday just came up but she didnt get me anything, although i told her she didnt really have to, but i thought that at least she would get me a card. What do you guys think, should i call her out on it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphathree

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hm, "call her out on it" seems a bit odd.

Did she KNOW it was your birthday? Exactly what kind of a discussion did you have about it? Did she just forget? Did you even get a 'happy birthday' ?

Anyway, I wouldn't worry about the birthday so much as the interest level... like, how high can her IL be if she doesn't care about your birthday?
 
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