"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my birthday

mrsuave004

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Whats going on fellas. This is my first post and it is a bit on the afc side but it is a question that has been on my mind. I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now and my birthday just came up but she didnt get me anything, although i told her she didnt really have to, but i thought that at least she would get me a card. What do you guys think, should i call her out on it?
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Alphathree

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hm, "call her out on it" seems a bit odd.

Did she KNOW it was your birthday? Exactly what kind of a discussion did you have about it? Did she just forget? Did you even get a 'happy birthday' ?

Anyway, I wouldn't worry about the birthday so much as the interest level... like, how high can her IL be if she doesn't care about your birthday?
 
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