“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My biggest fear for being married

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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well there's a saying my friend,

you can't run away from the inevitable :)

good luck !
 

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LMAO!

The guy's face in that fourth picture says it all.

Notice how all these dudes are still in decent shape. Double-standard anyone?? It's funny cause they started together in the same league and then the women just totally fell off, and quick by the looks of it. How much you wanna bet that's Micky D fat as opposed to pregnancy fat..

Anyways, there is a good tactic for avoiding this. Look at her mom and aunts because that's your preview right there. I will never settle down with a woman unless the females of her previous generation are still relatively hot well into their middle age.
 

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Razor Sharp said:
LMAO!

The guy's face in that fourth picture says it all.

Notice how all these dudes are still in decent shape. Double-standard anyone?? It's funny cause they started together in the same league and then the women just totally fell off, and quick by the looks of it. How much you wanna bet that's Micky D fat as opposed to pregnancy fat..

Anyways, there is a good tactic for avoiding this. Look at her mom and aunts because that's your preview right there. I will never settle down with a woman unless the females of her previous generation are still relatively hot well into their middle age.
I wouldn't call the dudes in "decent shape"... they're your average skinny/normal dude off the street. Decent shape to me = veins in your lower abs, full 6-pack w/ a good amount of muscle, good v-taper, etc.... or being a competitor at a sport at a reasonably high level.

Backbreaker, simple solution to your "biggest fear" is to marry a fitness model/competitor. I've seen TONS of women who are 35+ and are in phenomenal shape.

Check out Jamie Eason. I think she's 34:

http://www.iill.net/jamie-eason

Or Monica Brandt (I think she's 40):

http://www.strangesports.com/content/item/153929.html
 

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damn brah that's decent shape lol?

I think the 2nd dude is in decent shape. decent shape to me is I look at dude and I think, can he play a full game of full court basketball and not throw up afterwards or, can he bench press 180 pounds. i think the 2nd dude can. i think the first dude would be lost in a gym.

thread was more of a joke, my girl works out more than I do, but she's a cardio freak, not so much weight resistance. i have been working on her with that, she does weights but not like they should be done. she still thinks weights are too masculine. But she will cardio your ass into the ground lol. She still rides horses and does the exercise jock thing from time to time, has to be in tip top shape. me on the other hand i've always been of the school a damn hard core work[out is just as good if not better cardio. I used to do an hour on the bike everydfay but now i would rather spend 20 mintues on the bike and jus push myself when lifting to get done faster and not lollygag around.


I don't think it has to do with genetics. what I look at, 2 things how a woman treats the gym and how they treat food. truth be told, even if she is skinny, I don't have **** in common with a woman who eats like **** 24 x 7. I just don't. we can't eat the same thing, i tjust isnt' a good mesh. i am not super clean man but I generally don't eat like a fat ****.

All genes do is mask or enhance habits. If a woman is on point with her diet and what not, doesn't matter about the genetics. genetics however can mask ****ty eating habits. my old oneitis, eats, ****, 24 x 7, but has some of the best genetics I've ever seen. hell her mom is pushing 60 and truth be told lol, i'd knock her off lol. my old best friend is like that too, his whole diet is little ceasers pizzas, he can't possibly be close to 10% body fat. shredded.

my grandmother, mom's mom is about 180. my aunt is about 180.my grandmom's siter was about 200 pounds before she passed.

you would think my mom has bad genetics shed is going to be fat? 5'8 125 at the most. but she works out 6 days a week to get that.
you want to make sure your woman doesn't ballon and it be foul proof, just watch their daily diet and workout habits. I like a woman who gets up and jogs 5 miles a dayt, that woman is never going to be fat.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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backbreaker said:
All genes do is mask or enhance habits. If a woman is on point with her diet and what not, doesn't matter about the genetics. genetics however can mask ****ty eating habits. my old oneitis, eats, ****, 24 x 7, but has some of the best genetics I've ever seen. hell her mom is pushing 60 and truth be told lol, i'd knock her off lol. my old best friend is like that too, his whole diet is little ceasers pizzas, he can't possibly be close to 10% body fat. shredded.
That was like my ex. She would eat absolutely terrible. Fast food, high sugar, donuts, etc.. yet she wouldn't go past 110lbs at 5'3" and she had a smoking bod. Her mom is a rail too. Some people just have freak genetics.
 

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Razor Sharp said:
How much you wanna bet that's Micky D fat as opposed to pregnancy fat..
There's no reason to gain a bunch of weight while pregnant. A 7 lb baby does not need you to gain 50 lbs of fat.

I have 2 brothers. Both are married and both have a kid under 2. One wife gained a whole lot of weight and the other is back to being as skinny as she ever was. One eats like crap and the other never used the "i'm pregnant" excuse to boatload the cake. You don't see many attractive female celebrities go to hell by having a kid because they're forced not to let themselves go or be out of work.

Like most things, being pregnant is a cop out from personal responsibility. Failures at life will latch onto anything to make it not their fault.
 

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lol, i had to pick my fiancee up from the gym when her water broke lol.

the biggest she ever got was I think 145. was still knocking it off a few days before we had my son.
 

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I always told my exwife.......If I wanted a fat chic I would have married one! I think that kept the fear in her so she stayed thin.

If their mothers are fat, they might turn out to be fatties too. :)
 
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