"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Biceps are Tall and Narrow

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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How can I widen them? They're solid and have nice peaks but they're too narrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vronski

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I think its either because you have long arms and your bicep is small or because you dont rotate your wrist when you do biceps.

If you do it with dumbells, then do it with 3 different motions, each time a new one.

  • Palm facing downward
  • Palm facing horizon
  • Palm looking up

This way all you are gonna load different parts of the bicep and it will widen.

That's what I can think of
 

jakethasnake

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I have a similar problem. I'm wondering if slender arms are a genetic thing. Just as endomorphs will most likely never have shredded abs.

I have nice peaks too, but from the front my arms look skinny. Is it still possible to make em bulkier? I don't.
 

djmanagement

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Quick amurature question about bicep curls.......right now, I'm

using a a two handed grip with a bench press bar to curl the weight.

I've seen other shorter bars were the grips sections are raised to

give you better leverage.

If I buy the proper one, how big of a difference will it make?? Are there any advantages. So far everything is cool.

Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drug_L0rd

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ok two things, first:

Tryin to Grow a Chin, i have the same kind of biceps, its what body builders all look for, unfortunately for me i HATE body building but doing it in the three different ways Vronski explained might help you.

it's really a genetic thing though.


and second:

djmanagement, those bars are called EZ bars. the crooked part is not for better leverage but for hitting the biceps better when doing the standing barbell curl, because your hands are slightly on an angle rather than flat, holding the bar.
 
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