"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Knicknack

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So I was out at a bar downtown last night with 2 of my buddies. These 2 amazing blondes(one is a 10 and the other a 9). I don't give out high rankings often, but trust me, these girls were smokin' hot.

The 10 is about 6 feet tall, blue eyes. They were talkin with these 2 guys who seemed to be with them. As soon as those 2 guys walked away I walked up to them and started chattin' with the 6 foot tall HB10 girl. She is probably 27 or 28, so I grabbed her left hand gently and looked for a ring. I do this with the older girls so I know if they are married or not. She had a ring on, so I said, "what are you doing still going out?" She said she rarely goes out, but she was out that night because she was on a connecting flight in my city and her friend wanted to go out.

I asked her what city she lives in and she said L.A. I asked her what she did in L.A. and she said, "i work out there." I said, "is that what people do nowadays?" She laughed and then we chatted a bit more. She was very friendly, asking me what I do and what not. Early in the conversation I had asked her name, but forgot it as the conversation progressed. Since I know no one in L.A. is actually from L.A., I asked her where she is originally from. She said, "Sweden, do you know where that is?" I said, "yeah, it's in Massachusetts, right?" She laughed again.

I didn't want to hit on a married woman too long, so I was ready to eject. I was happy that I had the balls to approach this HOT blonde and have a nice, funny conversation with her, while busting her balls a bit. So I said, "well, it was nice talkin' to you. what was your name again?" She said Victoria, so I said, "well cya around, Victoria," and just walked off.

Shortly after a guy came up to me and asked me if I knew who I had just talked to. I said no, and he said, "Victoria Silvstedt."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What city do you live in? That's a pretty neat story.

Victoria

Is she a pr0n star or what? There are a bunch of pics of her naked that come up when I type her name in Google.
 

SteR

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holy **** dude! that woman is a babe lol I have a couple of posters of her in my room. Man, major props for having the balls to approach a girl like that - I wish I could do that ;)
 
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I'll give her a 7 maybe an 8 on a good day - not impressed!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wolfie

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most people give her a 10. that's why she's a playmate and pin up. I expect that she sees herself as a 10 as well, and would naturally be as hard to game as one.
Trying to impress ppl by going "oh, she's nothing...6..7 maybe.. i fvck 10 chicks like her every wk.." is clearly just disqualifying the guy to try and make yourself feel bigger.
 

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Nice job Knicknack. That took some balls.

I don't rate her as high like some guys but if I saw her one night I would still find her very hard to approach. How did you open her?
 

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Trying to impress ppl by going "oh, she's nothing...6..7 maybe.. i fvck 10 chicks like her every wk.." is clearly just disqualifying the guy to try and make yourself feel bigger.
Um, that or.... some people dont give out 10's. She damn sure aint perfect to be getting a 10.... so i gave her almost a perfect in my books... an 8.5. The highest score I normally give ie 9, and rarely a 9.5.. so an 8.5 would be damned high.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie

Trying to impress ppl by going "oh, she's nothing...6..7 maybe.. i fvck 10 chicks like her every wk.." is clearly just disqualifying the guy to try and make yourself feel bigger.
exactly dood... They take a positive story and try and find a way to knock a person off their high by finding or making something negative. Then they only say the negative and nothing else. ~Zappa
 

Knicknack

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Originally posted by Revlis
Nice job Knicknack. That took some balls.

I don't rate her as high like some guys but if I saw her one night I would still find her very hard to approach. How did you open her?
"hey what's up. what's your name?"

i basically use that every time.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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great job man. bit of a turn off that she poses naked...no wonder she didn't really tell you what she does for a living!
 
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