"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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Alright guys, here's an approach I recently did. Basically it was the morning and I was on the school bus saw this hb 8.5-9 and started a convo with her. She was sitting in front of me listening to her ipod.

First, i unplugged her ipod's headphones and put mine in. I realized she was listening to "If I were a boy" by Beyonce or some artist.

Me:Well, guess i can't date you.
her:what?
me: if you really wanna be a boy that would make things kinda awkward.
her: haha
me: so what are you studying there? ( i saw she had a notebook out)
her: O, its just some stuff from English on the Odyssey.
me: Cool, that was a pretty good story. Did you get to the part where Circy and Odysseus got it on?
her:yea that part was one of the only good ones so far.
me:I thought you'd like it... (with a smile on my face saying "you know you want it.")
her: You're pretty funny, you're girlfriend must love you.
me: one girl can't hold me down.
her: so you don't have a gf?
me: no, do you?
her: I don't have a boyfriend.
me: I never said boyfriend...
her: haha, well it been pretty fun talking to you (the bus pulled up to school).
me: let me see you hand really quickly...

I took her hand and wrote my number on it, it was really the only chance at kino i had.

So, thats basically it. Hope you guys like it or I helped someone.
 

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Pdizzzzzzle said:
Alright guys, here's an approach I recently did. Basically it was the morning and I was on the school bus saw this hb 8.5-9 and started a convo with her. She was sitting in front of me listening to her ipod.

First, i unplugged her ipod's headphones and put mine in. I realized she was listening to "If I were a boy" by Beyonce or some artist.

Me:Well, guess i can't date you.
her:what?
me: if you really wanna be a boy that would make things kinda awkward.
her: haha
me: so what are you studying there? ( i saw she had a notebook out)
her: O, its just some stuff from English on the Odyssey.
me: Cool, that was a pretty good story. Did you get to the part where Circy and Odysseus got it on?
her:yea that part was one of the only good ones so far.
me:I thought you'd like it... (with a smile on my face saying "you know you want it.")
her: You're pretty funny, you're girlfriend must love you.
me: one girl can't hold me down.
her: so you don't have a gf?
me: no, do you?
her: I don't have a boyfriend.
me: I never said boyfriend...
her: haha, well it been pretty fun talking to you (the bus pulled up to school).
me: let me see you hand really quickly...

I took her hand and wrote my number on it, it was really the only chance at kino i had.

So, thats basically it. Hope you guys like it or I helped someone.
Nice pick up bro, very smooth.

I especially like that "if I was a boy" line you said. Good example of exactly what to do when communicating with a woman.
 

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Awesome pickup man

The only thing I would've done differently is ask for her number. If you give her your number, the chances of her calling are slim.

Not because she's not interested, but because girls fear rejection more than men. You put it in her hands, and almost all of the time the girl will never make that first move.

Luckily you probably catch the same bus so when you see her again, get her number. Don't count her on her to call you though.
 

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props man. i would've never had the balls to even go up and touch her headphones. now i see what it takes =P. good job.
 

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Damn that's an awesome approach! How exactly were you able to pull off unplugging her iPod wihtout her being like WTF?! Did you do it really quick or what?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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San Jose California said:
Did you unplug her headphones and plug in yours without any words at all? That OWNS.
Haha yeah that's what I'm wondering. No way I would've been able to do something like that wihtout the girl wodnering wtf is going on
 

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Dude im not gonna lie that takes some serious balls lol...im surprised when you plugged out her headphones that she didnt turn around and be like "wtf is your problem a-hole?"

and i wouldnt have written your number on her hand cuz that makes you come off looking kinda desperate and now she prolly wont call you
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Dude im not gonna lie that takes some serious balls lol...im surprised when you plugged out her headphones that she didnt turn around and be like "wtf is your problem a-hole?"

and i wouldnt have written your number on her hand cuz that makes you come off looking kinda desperate and now she prolly wont call you
sorry ive been gone a while and im just getting back now. Yea, i just took out her headphones and put mine in, she looked at me a little funny as I did it but the reward payed off for the risk.

Secondly, yea I know about the number thing. She did call me back , but in some cases there will be girls who are afraid of rejection, thinks you giving them your phone number is a sign of weakness, etc. I guess its all about just reading the situation. Plus im kinda lazy so it was just easier.... ;)

If you guys want I can post more approaches. I do a lot poking fun at girls and stuuf during the convo if you guys need examples.
 

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Pdizzzzzzle said:
sorry ive been gone a while and im just getting back now. Yea, i just took out her headphones and put mine in, she looked at me a little funny as I did it but the reward payed off for the risk.

Secondly, yea I know about the number thing. She did call me back , but in some cases there will be girls who are afraid of rejection, thinks you giving them your phone number is a sign of weakness, etc. I guess its all about just reading the situation. Plus im kinda lazy so it was just easier.... ;)

If you guys want I can post more approaches. I do a lot poking fun at girls and stuuf during the convo if you guys need examples.
yeah i'd like to see some more of these, i like these examples

I would never have the balls to pull out her headphones.
 
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