“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My age is Really beginning to show. I'm 33.

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Guys, I've just noticed a rapid change in my looks, and how my body takes on physical activity.

My looking older, like within the last month I've noticed a change. I'm looking Clint Eastwood old. I fvcking hate that not being married yet, but what can I do?

My body also. My knee kinda cracked/snapped while playing volleyball last week, and I've been favoring it ever since. It's better now, but I've always been not accident prone. I NEVER get hurt really, and I'm a very physical guy.

So, cherish your youth, because at 33, I think it starts going downhill. You can't stop it. It's gonna happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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33? OMG! You're ancient! Have you planned your funeral yet?

Seriously Dude! GET A GRIP!

You are not old, you're in your PRIME! There are guys twice your age out there workin' it! Age is only a number! Stop whining and using a number as an excuse not to try.

And Clint Eastwood looks pretty damn good for nearly 80. Guys half his age don't look that fit. Don't dis Clint...he'll kick you butt.
 

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I just turned 33. I find more and more grey hair popping up by the day it seems. And before I do anything physically demanding, I have to stretch my limbs and warm up a bit. Something I didn't have to do when I was 23.
 

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i'm 20 and i've got more gray's then my father who is 45+. It looks good, who cares. stretching limbs and warming up are just plain good practices EVERYONE should do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ha ha, well, I guess that the picture taken of me was in bad lighting, because someone took another in the car the other day, and I looked 29ish again. I put the pic through http://www.myheritage.com/FP/Company/tryFaceRecognition.php and sure enough, I guessed it, it showed 74% on Clint Eastwood the first result.

I guess I'm ok now, just a mid-week crisis is all. Also, you talk about the grey hair. I have hardly any gray, but I have Just noticed fvckin hair growing out of my left fvckin ear. That's sick! I'll be trimming that for the rest of my life I guess.
 

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This post makes me feel old and i'm only 25.

As said above, your problems are probably more mental than physical.
 

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im 25, and i feel the aging too. our old joints cant take the stress anymore, my back is bad and painful, and my vision just aint what it used to be. i remember the good old days when i was 15 and didnt have to worry about all these health problems.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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piranha45 said:
im 25, and i feel the aging too. our old joints cant take the stress anymore, my back is bad and painful, and my vision just aint what it used to be. i remember the good old days when i was 15 and didnt have to worry about all these health problems.
Tell me your joking. I'm 25 and feel the best i've ever felt.

Must be your lifestyle.
 

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Cash said:
Tell me your joking. I'm 25 and feel the best i've ever felt.

Must be your lifestyle.
I'm going on 38, and I won't say that I look and feel better than I ever have in my life, but I definitely do not feel like I'm rapidly approaching 40. Hell, if you would have asked me 20 years ago I would have thought I would have one foot in the grave by now. Hopefully I can keep it up......
 

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Captain Harlock said:
yes, because having an old wrinkly skin and nothing but fat underneath looks incredibly sexy.
Actually a little fat when you're older will stretch the skin and remove wrinkles.

I said a LITTLE fat...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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piranha45 said:
im 25, and i feel the aging too. our old joints cant take the stress anymore, my back is bad and painful, and my vision just aint what it used to be. i remember the good old days when i was 15 and didnt have to worry about all these health problems.
I think you should adjust you lifestyle. Eat healthier, work out more, and get more sleep. Quit smoking if you do. Life is a gift you owe it to yourself to take good care of yourself.
 

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I was being sarcastic :(
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Ha ha, well, I guess that the picture taken of me was in bad lighting, because someone took another in the car the other day, and I looked 29ish again. I put the pic through http://www.myheritage.com/FP/Company/tryFaceRecognition.php and sure enough, I guessed it, it showed 74% on Clint Eastwood the first result.

I guess I'm ok now, just a mid-week crisis is all. Also, you talk about the grey hair. I have hardly any gray, but I have Just noticed fvckin hair growing out of my left fvckin ear. That's sick! I'll be trimming that for the rest of my life I guess.

Hmmm, I usually get female results from those types of things.
 

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There was this guy I met a few months ago who fought in Vietnam, and was buying a phone for his 30 year old daughter.

I asked the guy his age and he was almost 70 years old, at first glance he looked like in his 40's. For me I was quite amazed how young he looked, and I asked him how he did it.

He told, he didn't worry about all the stuff that happens to him, even during the war. All Mental stuff, just basically an easy going guy, if something happens let it go.

Basically... Be Happy :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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