"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My age is my biggest "****-Block" - Should i be lying?

Bratt2230

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Well, apparently my age is a HUGE ****blocker, the girls i walk up too and flirt with, are always older than me, yesterday i was gaming to girls, they were so in to me, until they found out i was 18 ... (they were 22 & 23) And all the suddently their IL hit rock buttom... But they said we should go see each other saturday night, go to a party once again... But they have not answers my text today (Even so they texted me like 15 times the day we met)

anyway.. is it okay to lie about my age? just tell people i am 20 yrs old (people usually guess i am 19-21)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Borknagar

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Ya know I'm in the other end of the spectrum in some ways I'm 31 and generally game women 21-24, but I also look around 23-27 which is what I get mistaken as but I don't lie, though sometimes they like older sometimes they don't and its tricky. I was gaming a 30 year old and she told me I look too young!
 

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Borknagar said:
Ya know I'm in the other end of the spectrum in some ways I'm 31 and generally game women 21-24, but I also look around 23-27 which is what I get mistaken as but I don't lie, though sometimes they like older sometimes they don't and its tricky. I was gaming a 30 year old and she told me I look too young!
The one thinking you look too young, what a compliment! Nice :D

- But you did not quite answer the question, would it be okay to lie? If i only would like a ONS and not a LTR
 

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The one thinking you look too young, what a compliment! Nice :D

- But you did not quite answer the question, would it be okay to lie? If i only would like a ONS and not a LTR
If your goal is ONS then yeah, obviously you can do whatever the hell you want.

I prefer not to lie because it's hard to keep track of. But if you're talking about girls you never want to see again, then sure why not.
 

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To be honest age is only factor as much as you think it effects you. If you believe it dosn't matter, then she will gather that vibe. I was majoritly dating 24-28 year olds at your age bro, although i did get a bit of resistance to start off with. If you are a guy who knows what he wants in his life and has a bright future, why would she not take a chance?

If she throws some resistance whilst you are closing by saying "you're too young" just say "yeah well, i think you are a bit to young for me too (grin), but i thought i would make an exception...so put your number in".

If that isn't enough throw their argument back at them....i rarely need to do this, but it works for me. If she keeps saying the you're not mature enough argument despite your efforts just tell her "You know you are right maturity and age is proportinal ....usually..., so saying that I expect that because you are mature you won't judge me on a number because at the end of the day it tells you nothing about me. But look from what i have seen i think you are quite nice, so put your number in there (hand phone) and i'll give you a call sometime"

Try not to lie, because if it ends up getting serious it won't look good on you. Rather show them your balls and show them that you are a man and you don't care what they think and just take whatever you want.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Funny thing is once you get a few years older you probably will not want to date older girls. I used to get that too. Looking young can be a disadvantage, but I am still hooking up with girls your age, and most people are very surprised when I tell them I'm 26. At 22 or 23 you are usually at a different stage in life, starting a career or ending college, than you are at 18.
 
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