"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My age is my biggest "****-Block" - Should i be lying?

Bratt2230

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Well, apparently my age is a HUGE ****blocker, the girls i walk up too and flirt with, are always older than me, yesterday i was gaming to girls, they were so in to me, until they found out i was 18 ... (they were 22 & 23) And all the suddently their IL hit rock buttom... But they said we should go see each other saturday night, go to a party once again... But they have not answers my text today (Even so they texted me like 15 times the day we met)

anyway.. is it okay to lie about my age? just tell people i am 20 yrs old (people usually guess i am 19-21)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borknagar

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Ya know I'm in the other end of the spectrum in some ways I'm 31 and generally game women 21-24, but I also look around 23-27 which is what I get mistaken as but I don't lie, though sometimes they like older sometimes they don't and its tricky. I was gaming a 30 year old and she told me I look too young!
 

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Borknagar said:
Ya know I'm in the other end of the spectrum in some ways I'm 31 and generally game women 21-24, but I also look around 23-27 which is what I get mistaken as but I don't lie, though sometimes they like older sometimes they don't and its tricky. I was gaming a 30 year old and she told me I look too young!
The one thinking you look too young, what a compliment! Nice :D

- But you did not quite answer the question, would it be okay to lie? If i only would like a ONS and not a LTR
 

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Petari said:
The one thinking you look too young, what a compliment! Nice :D

- But you did not quite answer the question, would it be okay to lie? If i only would like a ONS and not a LTR
If your goal is ONS then yeah, obviously you can do whatever the hell you want.

I prefer not to lie because it's hard to keep track of. But if you're talking about girls you never want to see again, then sure why not.
 

rushing dude 123

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To be honest age is only factor as much as you think it effects you. If you believe it dosn't matter, then she will gather that vibe. I was majoritly dating 24-28 year olds at your age bro, although i did get a bit of resistance to start off with. If you are a guy who knows what he wants in his life and has a bright future, why would she not take a chance?

If she throws some resistance whilst you are closing by saying "you're too young" just say "yeah well, i think you are a bit to young for me too (grin), but i thought i would make an exception...so put your number in".

If that isn't enough throw their argument back at them....i rarely need to do this, but it works for me. If she keeps saying the you're not mature enough argument despite your efforts just tell her "You know you are right maturity and age is proportinal ....usually..., so saying that I expect that because you are mature you won't judge me on a number because at the end of the day it tells you nothing about me. But look from what i have seen i think you are quite nice, so put your number in there (hand phone) and i'll give you a call sometime"

Try not to lie, because if it ends up getting serious it won't look good on you. Rather show them your balls and show them that you are a man and you don't care what they think and just take whatever you want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Inside Man

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Funny thing is once you get a few years older you probably will not want to date older girls. I used to get that too. Looking young can be a disadvantage, but I am still hooking up with girls your age, and most people are very surprised when I tell them I'm 26. At 22 or 23 you are usually at a different stage in life, starting a career or ending college, than you are at 18.
 
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