"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My AFC roomate is screwing up my game!!

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My roomate, who I started living with a few months ago, is the BIGGEST AFC I know. I don't really feel like going into all kinds of detail about why he's the biggest AFC, but take my word for it--chronic nice guy syndrome, (always ends up "the friend,") fat, bald, no confidence, showers about every 4 days, etc. etc......
The thing is, he actually has A LOT of really cute girl-FRIENDS he hangs out with and these girls, in turn, also have a lot of cute girlfriends. Some of them are model quality.
AGAIN, take my word on this, and believe me, THESE GIRLS WILL NEVER, NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER have sex with or DO ANYTHING with my roomate!!!! NEVER!!! He is simply their emotional tampon asexual friend. These are girls who have been his FRIEND (and nothing else) for years.
My roomate knows I'm pretty good with women these days and I think he's somewhat jealous. He has stopped inviting me to hang out with him and these girls-- and it's really starting to piss me off! He's so annoying about it that he will make a big deal that he is going to go hang out with them, and then turn around and not invite me.
What can I do to bypass my roomates "fear" or worry that I'm going to get in on his "action" (which he is NEVER actually going to get) and make him not care if I hang out with his hot lady friends? SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell him you'll help him get laid with these girls, then when he's not looking make your move. Ultimately though its a difficult situation, if you get with any of these girls then he's gonna find out, and when he does he'll probably not invite you over to his much anymore.

So there is only one way...........

Tell him you'll help get him laid, then when the opportunity arrises get some #'s from these chicks. Then from the safety of your own room (with your AFC friend long gone), call these girls and arrange to meet up over yours... simple.
 
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It's been a few months...you know some of these chicks well enough that you could hang with them WITHOUT your roommate, right?

Actually, after a few months you should already have a number or two...why are sitting there fooling around? :D :p
 
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find ur own girls!

Or hell if you've met them and your that "good" next time you see that spark up a convo!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What exactly have you got to offer your AFC roommate except to lay your game out on these chicks and potentially bag them and make a fvcking fool out of him for being soo AFC....

we've been there!!!

Leave the guy alone and don't rely on him for chicks. Do what he did and find your own.
 
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everybody's right, dont rely on him for chicks.

go find your own and be more socially active. go ask your friends to hook u up with chicks. besides if he doesnt feel like inviitiing you then he has that right. who are you to complain!?
 
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