Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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my afc fvcked me up again hooah...

tarotale

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stupid. so stupid i am. i am immature apprentice don juan and once again

make a vital mistake. hear me out:mad:

one day before my laboratory report is due, this girl i know in class chats to

me via facebook. now, this girl used to show interest in me, but now completely

not interested in me, and when i try to give her time, she ignores me and stuff

i don care and think "well wtf haha". but this girl chats me via fb and tells me

her: tarotale I love you and you know it. will you do me a huge favor?
me: (i slipped out of my fvcking mind and let my guard down) ya sure
her: will you let me borrow your report as an example, come on you know i love you
me: well, if you let me study your body for anatomy lab lol (stupid idiot me!)
her: ... no
me: just kidding. here, i will send it to you (what the fvck was i thinking)


so after that, she told me thanks and never contacted me again...

holy ****, vital fvcking mistake, i let my guard down.

this happen sometimes, and it kinda tells me that i am naturally a "nice guy"

but oh no siiirs, fvck nice guys, they always get ripped off by biaches like

this. look how this biach don talk to me after i gave her what she wanted


now i was so dumb a$$ here, so my fella don juans, tell me how you woud've

handled this situation. at least now, i know i won't act like a stupid afc again
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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btw, i think someone like kontroller x would have wooped the xhit out of her mind with his attitude lol. i want me some attitude like that
 

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It seems like you're beating yourself up over nothing. It looks like you didn't have a chance with her at all. So you helped her with something. Did you lose anything from it? And yes the study her body line was bad.

So now what is a witty line that could have been used?

How about

her: tarotale I love you and you know it. will you do me a huge favor?
me: (i slipped out of my fvcking mind and let my guard down) ya sure
her: will you let me borrow your report as an example, come on you know i love you
me: well how much do you love me? (Basically let her think of something)

She then could have responded with a million things. I would try to get her to narrow it down to something. Though in the end she'd probably give up. She wouldn't get your report and you'd be in the same situation you are now except you didn't give her anything.

Try to think of other things you could have said.
 
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