"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my afc fvcked me up again hooah...

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stupid. so stupid i am. i am immature apprentice don juan and once again

make a vital mistake. hear me out:mad:

one day before my laboratory report is due, this girl i know in class chats to

me via facebook. now, this girl used to show interest in me, but now completely

not interested in me, and when i try to give her time, she ignores me and stuff

i don care and think "well wtf haha". but this girl chats me via fb and tells me

her: tarotale I love you and you know it. will you do me a huge favor?
me: (i slipped out of my fvcking mind and let my guard down) ya sure
her: will you let me borrow your report as an example, come on you know i love you
me: well, if you let me study your body for anatomy lab lol (stupid idiot me!)
her: ... no
me: just kidding. here, i will send it to you (what the fvck was i thinking)


so after that, she told me thanks and never contacted me again...

holy ****, vital fvcking mistake, i let my guard down.

this happen sometimes, and it kinda tells me that i am naturally a "nice guy"

but oh no siiirs, fvck nice guys, they always get ripped off by biaches like

this. look how this biach don talk to me after i gave her what she wanted


now i was so dumb a$$ here, so my fella don juans, tell me how you woud've

handled this situation. at least now, i know i won't act like a stupid afc again
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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btw, i think someone like kontroller x would have wooped the xhit out of her mind with his attitude lol. i want me some attitude like that
 
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It seems like you're beating yourself up over nothing. It looks like you didn't have a chance with her at all. So you helped her with something. Did you lose anything from it? And yes the study her body line was bad.

So now what is a witty line that could have been used?

How about

her: tarotale I love you and you know it. will you do me a huge favor?
me: (i slipped out of my fvcking mind and let my guard down) ya sure
her: will you let me borrow your report as an example, come on you know i love you
me: well how much do you love me? (Basically let her think of something)

She then could have responded with a million things. I would try to get her to narrow it down to something. Though in the end she'd probably give up. She wouldn't get your report and you'd be in the same situation you are now except you didn't give her anything.

Try to think of other things you could have said.
 
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