"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am a RAFC and I was wondering if proper for me to be the guide of my afc friends and tell them about this site, wath is your opinion?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, don't pressure them into it. Bring up your opinions if relationship issues come up, but only offer to help your friends if they express interest first.

And if they start to bail on the program once they've started, calmly explain to them the error of their apostacy. But if they still choose to return to chumpishness after tasting enlightenment, let them. Don't be willing to lose a friend because you nag them too much (i've kinda made that mistake myself, I think).
 
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Agreed, don't tell anyone about this site. :trouble:
When someone asks you if you know what a Don Juan is... you reply Don what? :yes:

You can try and help though, by pointing them in the right direction.
 
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You can lead the horse to the water but you cannot make him drink

Everyone is on their own trip. Tell em about it. If they are into it then they will pick up on it.

In my experience you only get into this when you are ready. You can't convert friends.

I would suggest just taking care of your own business. Once your friends see you making improvements in your life then they will be more open to this stuff.

JJ
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jay Jay said:
Everyone is on their own trip. Tell em about it. If they are into it then they will pick up on it.

In my experience you only get into this when you are ready. You can't convert friends.

I would suggest just taking care of your own business. Once your friends see you making improvements in your life then they will be more open to this stuff.JJ
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true. my friends all think im crazy with the way that i deal with chicks after learning something from here. then they wonder how i get some much... well lol you kno.

one they see you having success, then they will come around
 
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