"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my afc friends

JEFE

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I am a RAFC and I was wondering if proper for me to be the guide of my afc friends and tell them about this site, wath is your opinion?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, don't pressure them into it. Bring up your opinions if relationship issues come up, but only offer to help your friends if they express interest first.

And if they start to bail on the program once they've started, calmly explain to them the error of their apostacy. But if they still choose to return to chumpishness after tasting enlightenment, let them. Don't be willing to lose a friend because you nag them too much (i've kinda made that mistake myself, I think).
 

Play the Game

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Agreed, don't tell anyone about this site. :trouble:
When someone asks you if you know what a Don Juan is... you reply Don what? :yes:

You can try and help though, by pointing them in the right direction.
 

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You can lead the horse to the water but you cannot make him drink

Everyone is on their own trip. Tell em about it. If they are into it then they will pick up on it.

In my experience you only get into this when you are ready. You can't convert friends.

I would suggest just taking care of your own business. Once your friends see you making improvements in your life then they will be more open to this stuff.

JJ
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Raikojo17

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Jay Jay said:
Everyone is on their own trip. Tell em about it. If they are into it then they will pick up on it.

In my experience you only get into this when you are ready. You can't convert friends.

I would suggest just taking care of your own business. Once your friends see you making improvements in your life then they will be more open to this stuff.JJ
true. my friends all think im crazy with the way that i deal with chicks after learning something from here. then they wonder how i get some much... well lol you kno.

one they see you having success, then they will come around
 
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