"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My AFC friend thinks he's dating a girl....

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teddy

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but I told him that he's probably in the friend zone.

He's apparently seen this girl 7 times already, but they haven't kissed or done anything. He said they're "dating", though he hasn't asked her what "this is."

I told him she probably thinks they're just hanging out as friends.

It's crazy how different I see things now than I used to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Big Nuts

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7 times? He should have banged her 10 times by now.
 
DonJuanit0

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It more depends on what they do when they are out together rather than if they have kissed or had sex!

I do understand 7 times are a lot but still, you can't be sure! How old are you? I believe you are very young, so it could be possible to be on even after 7 times, in any other case, if it wasn't for friendship she would have left easily!

Instead of just tell him what you believe, you can help him by saying that maybe after 7 times, and if they are actual dates, he can go for it! And see where that goes, no more waiting!

Another thing, isn't this what women do? Let the guy think he can score while they boost their EGO and express their feelings to their emotional tampon? Like a good old girlfriend would do to them, but being a guy makes it even better!
 
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This the same one that ****ed up introducing you to that girl? How old are you guys, BTW?
 
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