"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My AFC friend thinks he's dating a girl....

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teddy

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but I told him that he's probably in the friend zone.

He's apparently seen this girl 7 times already, but they haven't kissed or done anything. He said they're "dating", though he hasn't asked her what "this is."

I told him she probably thinks they're just hanging out as friends.

It's crazy how different I see things now than I used to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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7 times? He should have banged her 10 times by now.
 
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It more depends on what they do when they are out together rather than if they have kissed or had sex!

I do understand 7 times are a lot but still, you can't be sure! How old are you? I believe you are very young, so it could be possible to be on even after 7 times, in any other case, if it wasn't for friendship she would have left easily!

Instead of just tell him what you believe, you can help him by saying that maybe after 7 times, and if they are actual dates, he can go for it! And see where that goes, no more waiting!

Another thing, isn't this what women do? Let the guy think he can score while they boost their EGO and express their feelings to their emotional tampon? Like a good old girlfriend would do to them, but being a guy makes it even better!
 
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This the same one that ****ed up introducing you to that girl? How old are you guys, BTW?
 
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