My 2nd Cousin Is a Fvcking AFC Imbecile

[BeExcellent]

I heard that phrase from Rian Stone. You seem to know about that, you should make a thread about it, many men will benefit from that, trust me.

Agree. Reward good behavior/punish bad behavior deserves its own thread.

@Dr.Suave

 

[BaronOfHair]

I agree, and I'm trying to convince DM's dad to quit trying to make peace with his son because he gets 5hit on every single time. I hear about it every time I visit

You have the option of explaining to all parties involved that you're not a licensed family therapist, and thus aren't eager to hear anything else about this particular subject. I'm assuming that these folks have never thrown a few shekels your way, for serving as their de facto shrink

 

[Dr.Suave]

Agree. Reward good behavior/punish bad behavior deserves its own thread.

@Dr.Suave

You should make a thread

Punish Bad behavior, Reward Good behavior

I have been in a LTR since late 2021. I think I have been leading pretty successfully, at least compared to my previous LTRs. This woman is leaps and bounds ahead of my previous LTRs in many ways, "Behavior" being one of those. But she is still a woman, so she will test me once in a blue moon...

www.sosuave.net

 

[Serenity]

Im sure @Serenity knows more than me. My woman will test me once in a blue moon, I remember literally telling her one time:

"If Serenity wouldnt tolerate this rubbish behavior from a woman, I sure as f0ck not going to take it either."

Wait, did you literally mention me to her and does she know about me on this forum? This is weird in some way I can't describe.

In any case, I don't have that phrase from anywhere or anyone in particular. I reached that conclusion on my own, but I'm not at all surprised many others before me have reached the same conclusion, it only makes sense.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Wait, did you literally mention me to her and does she know about me on this forum? This is weird in some way I can't describe.

No, no. My bad, I mis used the word "literally". She knows there is a forum, but I have never disclosed the name of the forum or any of the actual usernames. Your name is "Sereno, Moreno" for all she knows.

 

[Serenity]

No, no. My bad, I mis used the word "literally". She knows there is a forum, but I have never disclosed the name of the forum or any of the actual usernames. Your name is "Sereno, Moreno" for all she knows.

I wasn't worried about her knowing about the forum or me for that matter, I'm still just some anonymous Norwegian guy anyways.

Did you make that point to her though? That there's this anonymous online forum user who wouldn't tolerate some behavior and thus you're not going to either?

I'm sorry, I'm just really curious about this now.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I'm sorry, I'm just really curious about this now.

All good.

Did you make that point to her though? That there's this anonymous online forum user who wouldn't tolerate some behavior and thus you're not going to either?

Yes, specifically the part where if a woman ever tried to make you feel bad, you would walk away. In a way I guess I told her I was adopting this new standard (or boundary) for myself. It was now non-negotiable for me.

 

[Serenity]

All good.



Yes, specifically the part where if a woman ever tried to make you feel bad, you would walk away. In a way I guess I told her I was adopting this new standard (or boundary) for myself. It was now non-negotiable for me.

I see. You adopted the boundary, but you didn't express that "this guy" on an online forum told you so. It would have been weird if you did, lol.

 

[Desdinova]

Of course he is. He is also one of the greatest AFC, where do you think his son got those behaviors from?

Very true. The point wasn't about both of them having women problems, the point was how DM treats his dad. He didn't beat the p1ss out of him, he didn't abandon him, he taught him how to hunt, how to fish, etc. There was absolutely no reason for DM to invite his dad, but not his dad's GF. The only reason was FFHD doesn't like Asian people, and DM agrees with her because pvssy.

people are so attached to the matrix that for them its impossible to leave, and they will fight to protect it.

...until they hit rock bottom. Once she gives him the boot, he might listen. That's when I cash my "I told you so" ticket.

I'm assuming that these folks have never thrown a few shekels your way, for serving as their de facto shrink

I cash in favours. DM's dad has no problem doing things for me, so he can vent to me all he wants. His son hasn't done anything for me except annoy both me and my GF while he lived here, so I could care less if I fvck that one up.

 

[Barrister]

I’ve known a few guys like DM over the course of my life. Hopelessly blue-pilled white knights that it makes zero difference what happens, they never change.

My experience has been that the more you try to help them out, the harder they dig in and make excuses for the women and try to provide reasons why you’re wrong. A good buddy of mine is 51 years old and is probably the biggest white knight I know. Good looking guy for his age and good job. But he repeatedly makes the same mistakes with women and repeatedly is willing to throw away his whole identity to appease the women he is (briefly) with until he sabotages it by being so available and desperate.

There’s simply nothing to be done for them other than to hope that experience provides a teaching moment (finally). In my buddy’s case I think it’s hopeless - but maybe DM comes around as 29 isn’t that old overall.