"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My 2 VERY AFC friends...

toddC

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Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
The girls are using the twins as b!tch posts. They don't feel "attracted" to the twins, no man.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
I have AFC friends to sometimes i just wanna put my hand infront of there mouth and talk for them. "Of course i'll do anything you ask."

Then they try to give you when advice. I'm just like shut up queer.
 
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