"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My 2 VERY AFC friends...

toddC

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Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ4Real

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
The girls are using the twins as b!tch posts. They don't feel "attracted" to the twins, no man.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
Okay, well my 2 friends (they are twins) are complete AFC. Girls B*tch them EVERYDAY! They are the typical nice guy. If a girl was to call them and ask them to get them from across town they would do so no problem.

Now, myself is the kind of guy who isn't the nice guy but isn't the jerk (i'm in between). However I only seem to be pulling girls once or twice before we just don't hook up anymore where as this set of twins just holds on to girls for a LONG time.

Just 2 weeks ago both of them met a girl and haev been b*tched by these 2 girls for 2 straight weeks yet the girls just stick around and suprisingly don't look bored at all...wtf is up with this!!
I have AFC friends to sometimes i just wanna put my hand infront of there mouth and talk for them. "Of course i'll do anything you ask."

Then they try to give you when advice. I'm just like shut up queer.
 
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