Ok so check this out. I meet this girl on myspace who friend requests me on myspace about a month ago and we've been talking ever since. We seem to have a whole lot in common, our likes, dislikes , our backgrounds, where we live, we even go to each other's rival high schools, so she doesnt go to my school but was at sporting events and I didnt even know she was there. So I keep flirting with her online and I finally got her cell number and her AIM in one go.:yes: So we decide to meet at the mall 4 the first time about a week ago. She brought her friend, im guessin to see if a was a trustworthy guy and not a pedophile:nono: So, we really hit it off at the mall and we went to a lot of clothing stores and she helped me pick out some clothes too. We left but I didnt get a kiss at the end even though a pulled some kino on her. About a week ltr, we r still talkin n we decide to go to the movies and see "The Messengers" a horror movie.:yes: A Great place for kino.:yes: I pay 4 her ticket and we sit down and talk a whole bunch b4 the movie. I try to play it off during the scary parts and try to get closer to her n see if she reacts but I fkin didnt put my arm around her. My arm was practically on top of hers and I could smell her perfume and she didnt seem to mind so i think she was diggin it, especially when she jumped durin scary parts of the movie. I just dunno how to get to a kiss caus i didnt wanna feel her up on the 1st date caus i dont really know if she is like that but....what do u think I shoulda done and wat do u think i should do if there is a next movie dat or normal date to pull off some more successful kino???
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My 1st Date at The MOVIES
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Shocker
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Let me give you a tip: All girls are like that. Some just pretend not to be.
GaryUranga
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man does your name start with a D and her name with an L? cause if thats you Im gonna get violent
Plec07
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Lol wtf? you think you know him IRL? This could be interesting....GaryUranga said:
And in response to the OP next time don't pay for her ticket. If you wanna get some nice kino in you could move the arm rest up saying something like "Damned things are so awkward to lean against" (you could prolly come up with something more interesting but i'm tired lol) and chances are she'll start to lean on you within the next 10 mins if not immediatly, never failed for me. Once she's against you best thing to do at first is probably hold onto her hand like eminence said, just untill she feels completely comfortable (mentally and physically) then your hands are free to wonder
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.