"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My 1st Date at The MOVIES

Mr. Fresh

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Ok so check this out. I meet this girl on myspace who friend requests me on myspace about a month ago and we've been talking ever since. We seem to have a whole lot in common, our likes, dislikes , our backgrounds, where we live, we even go to each other's rival high schools, so she doesnt go to my school but was at sporting events and I didnt even know she was there. So I keep flirting with her online and I finally got her cell number and her AIM in one go.:yes: So we decide to meet at the mall 4 the first time about a week ago. She brought her friend, im guessin to see if a was a trustworthy guy and not a pedophile:nono: So, we really hit it off at the mall and we went to a lot of clothing stores and she helped me pick out some clothes too. We left but I didnt get a kiss at the end even though a pulled some kino on her. About a week ltr, we r still talkin n we decide to go to the movies and see "The Messengers" a horror movie.:yes: A Great place for kino.:yes: I pay 4 her ticket and we sit down and talk a whole bunch b4 the movie. I try to play it off during the scary parts and try to get closer to her n see if she reacts but I fkin didnt put my arm around her. My arm was practically on top of hers and I could smell her perfume and she didnt seem to mind so i think she was diggin it, especially when she jumped durin scary parts of the movie. I just dunno how to get to a kiss caus i didnt wanna feel her up on the 1st date caus i dont really know if she is like that but....what do u think I shoulda done and wat do u think i should do if there is a next movie dat or normal date to pull off some more successful kino???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Shocker

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Let me give you a tip: All girls are like that. Some just pretend not to be.
 

eminence

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grab her hand, it gets to girls on a more personal level, forget putting your arm around girls, too common. plus you can tell if shes interested or not if she reacts to it
 

Plec07

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GaryUranga said:
man does your name start with a D and her name with an L? cause if thats you Im gonna get violent
Lol wtf? you think you know him IRL? This could be interesting....

And in response to the OP next time don't pay for her ticket. If you wanna get some nice kino in you could move the arm rest up saying something like "Damned things are so awkward to lean against" (you could prolly come up with something more interesting but i'm tired lol) and chances are she'll start to lean on you within the next 10 mins if not immediatly, never failed for me. Once she's against you best thing to do at first is probably hold onto her hand like eminence said, just untill she feels completely comfortable (mentally and physically) then your hands are free to wonder :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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