"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My 15 year anniversary

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Wow... as I type this it blows my mind that it's been 15 years since I found this site ! I'm nothing special, no guru, no pick up artist just a dude fortunate to have found this site and figured out the traps and programming of modern females.

I see a ton of posts on this site from the early 20's crowd about being Alpha and I can relate! In my early 20's everything I did or said I analyzed and wondered " was that alpha!?" I am hoping those young bucks learn from my trial and error. Being alpha isn't about the girl it's about you! It's about your needs, your piece of mind, your health.. it's entirely about you! It's not about pretending to be a jerk or a tough guy but doing the right thing at the right time under any circumstance. Speak your mind, be honest, call people out, make yourself uncomfortable every single day! Follow your conscience... if you see an injustice step in and right it.

Work on your charisma, fitness, style, confidence, and constantly improve... again with yourself in mind. Learn new skills, hunt, fish, sky dive, rock climb, etc, etc! Don't ever improve for the sole purpose of puntang! This is your life... your the main character and if you are actively pursuing becoming the best you can possibly be... for you... and only you... you are alpha,

In my opinion the end of the journey will not be about all the meaningless battles with crazy chicks, cheaters and bpd's but your self improvement and living life on your terms. we live in a society that vilifies men. We all need to take our power back and help each other. God bless you all and thank you so suave !!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This site sadly has changed and the quality of posts are trollish i.e. "The Lamborghini thread"

I think most guys here need to focus on their purposes i.e.business,finances, fitness, money etc.

Once guys gain confidence doing something that builds legacy or purposes women are an afterthought

I didn't hit my stride until i became 30 yes I have been with less women but I have done more traveling, made more money etc
 

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This site sadly has changed and the quality of posts are trollish i.e. "The Lamborghini thread"

I think most guys here need to focus on their purposes i.e.business,finances, fitness, money etc.

Once guys gain confidence doing something that builds legacy or purposes women are an afterthought

I didn't hit my stride until i became 30 yes I have been with less women but I have done more traveling, made more money etc
Agreed. I came back a few weeks ago after a year hiatus and the posts are all troll like, and “why won’t she answer /should I pursue” bs threads.

Seems like no one wants to put in the work anymore.
 

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Work on your charisma, fitness, style, confidence, and constantly improve... again with yourself in mind. Learn new skills, hunt, fish, sky dive, rock climb, etc, etc! Don't ever improve for the sole purpose of puntang! This is your life... your the main character and if you are actively pursuing becoming the best you can possibly be... for you... and only you... you are alpha,

In my opinion the end of the journey will not be about all the meaningless battles with crazy chicks, cheaters and bpd's but your self improvement and living life on your terms. we live in a society that vilifies men. We all need to take our power back and help each other. God bless you all and thank you so suave !!!
^^ This is golden
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^ This is golden
Thank you brother! Men in their early 20's need to realize this!!! Like a few posts above says this site has become trollish. You have men... let me repeat that.. MEN... asking questions like " so I acted like a jerk to that HB10 and she rolled her eyes... I'm now waiting 3 days before initiating contact with her.. should I wait 3.5 or 4 and what if she doesn't respond" These dudes need to be so occupied with themselves and their own life and improvement that they literally forget the hb10 until she's stalking him because she can't figure him out !
 

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Thank you brother! Men in their early 20's need to realize this!!! Like a few posts above says this site has become trollish. You have men... let me repeat that.. MEN... asking questions like " so I acted like a jerk to that HB10 and she rolled her eyes... I'm now waiting 3 days before initiating contact with her.. should I wait 3.5 or 4 and what if she doesn't respond" These dudes need to be so occupied with themselves and their own life and improvement that they literally forget the hb10 until she's stalking him because she can't figure him out !
Their lives revolves around women when in actual fact it's the opposite.

Counter productive to their frame of mind and thus affects their personality.

Modern men problems lay with too much feminine influence when they were growing up; absence of father, teachers whom are mostly women. Young boys are basically being raised by women who inadvertently teaches boys how to behave as men.

Boggles the mind as how a woman could ever mentor a boy into a man when she has never lived as a man.
 

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I liked this whole thread!:p
 
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