"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I saw a very impressive cold approach on the train this morning. It was the first CA i saw in public that was not done by one of my friends.

I board inbound train heading into the city and see and hear this happen right next to me.

Across from where I was stood a nerdy girl, HB5 at most.
I see a guy enter the train and immediately make a comment about the books the girl was carrying. She was a law student and so was he. Initially i was under impression they've met before, but questions that followed stated the opposite. After establishing common ground where he and she were studying he began talking about craziness of moving and where they were from (this guy was from Long Island, NY and the girl was from a local town). He smoothly made an exit one station later. Note that neither of them exchanged names or contact information.

Topics of the conversation were pretty simple but the whole fluidity of this approach really impressed me. The vibe between then was very friendly.

After he left I asked her whether she met him before, she said No.

Witnessing these approaches is second best to actually approaching. Very inspirational!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thats why we should have a...video section or something here at sosuave so we can actually SEE seom approaches ourselves. Much more inspirational and useful:D

-fender-
 

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But what was the point if he didn't get the digits?

:confused:

I think he was just being friendly.
 

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Also, that was a good opportunity for you to get her numbers, even if she was a five. Great practice.
 

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That's what every DJ, or wannabe, should do imo. Keep your convo skills maximum because you never know when u really need them. Good opportunity well used I would say. I often talk to strangers, young and old, beautiful and not so beautiful, just for the fun of it, and so did he.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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