"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Musings: Are hot women used to having better sex?

Pierce Manhammer

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Personally, when I’m with a woman that turns me on I want to smash repeatedly, 4-5 times a
day and I’m not talking about 30 minute quickies. I stay harder, go longer and have a bottomless barrel of libido for her.

I’m talking 8-> of course the measure of hotness is subjective. But this has made me wonder if a seriously attractive woman has more, longer, and more satisfying sex. This would be a woman with some experience probably >30 years not some teeny bopper.

In any case I’ve had longer term partners that were gymnasts, pro dancers, ex-models, among other things, certainly with top tier physiques and looks.

I am interested in a serious and thoughtful dialogue about this with men who don’t hate women and accept their hypergamy as a fact and aren’t bitter about it like some here.

Please let’s not derail this conversation.

Do you think that highly attractive women are used to better, longer and more frequent sex?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The simple answer is yes.
 

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Well I remember shagging a woman and she said "you are taking a long time coming" and I said "yes, I cant think of anyone exciting or attractive" :p
 

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Quality of sex seems to be largely determined by the age that sex is first had... Like if sex is one of her main ways of getting a dopamine hit, she probably enjoys it a lot, however if her... Arsenal of tools to acquire a dopamine hit is larger, than the quality of the dopamine from sex might be lower or saw as comparable to another dopamine experience.
 

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An ugly gymnast will most likely have a better sex game then the hot girl in the office. It really depends. Everyone views sex differently.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pierce Manhammer

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not better sex game, better sex. Are they accustomed to better sex?

An ugly gymnast will most likely have a better sex game then the hot girl in the office. It really depends. Everyone views sex differently.
 

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More partners a woman has the less ability she has to pair bond due to endorphins being released during sex.

i.e if you sleep with a woman who has slept with a lot of men you notice she is harder to lock down in my opinion. These girls are fundamentally broken. Unfortunately they seem to be the best lays which sucks.
 

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Your Higher "notch count" women will statistically have had better sex than inexperienced women. I also thing Serial monogamous women will have had better sex because of learning each partner's preferences. Woman who climax easily may have experienced better sex (in their mind) than women who don't enjoy sex.

So much of a woman's enjoyment comes from her emotional state of mind...Funseeking women seem to be more sexual to me.
 
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