"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Musings: Are hot women used to having better sex?

Pierce Manhammer

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Personally, when I’m with a woman that turns me on I want to smash repeatedly, 4-5 times a
day and I’m not talking about 30 minute quickies. I stay harder, go longer and have a bottomless barrel of libido for her.

I’m talking 8-> of course the measure of hotness is subjective. But this has made me wonder if a seriously attractive woman has more, longer, and more satisfying sex. This would be a woman with some experience probably >30 years not some teeny bopper.

In any case I’ve had longer term partners that were gymnasts, pro dancers, ex-models, among other things, certainly with top tier physiques and looks.

I am interested in a serious and thoughtful dialogue about this with men who don’t hate women and accept their hypergamy as a fact and aren’t bitter about it like some here.

Please let’s not derail this conversation.

Do you think that highly attractive women are used to better, longer and more frequent sex?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The simple answer is yes.
 

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Well I remember shagging a woman and she said "you are taking a long time coming" and I said "yes, I cant think of anyone exciting or attractive" :p
 

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Quality of sex seems to be largely determined by the age that sex is first had... Like if sex is one of her main ways of getting a dopamine hit, she probably enjoys it a lot, however if her... Arsenal of tools to acquire a dopamine hit is larger, than the quality of the dopamine from sex might be lower or saw as comparable to another dopamine experience.
 

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An ugly gymnast will most likely have a better sex game then the hot girl in the office. It really depends. Everyone views sex differently.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pierce Manhammer

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not better sex game, better sex. Are they accustomed to better sex?

An ugly gymnast will most likely have a better sex game then the hot girl in the office. It really depends. Everyone views sex differently.
 

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More partners a woman has the less ability she has to pair bond due to endorphins being released during sex.

i.e if you sleep with a woman who has slept with a lot of men you notice she is harder to lock down in my opinion. These girls are fundamentally broken. Unfortunately they seem to be the best lays which sucks.
 

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Your Higher "notch count" women will statistically have had better sex than inexperienced women. I also thing Serial monogamous women will have had better sex because of learning each partner's preferences. Woman who climax easily may have experienced better sex (in their mind) than women who don't enjoy sex.

So much of a woman's enjoyment comes from her emotional state of mind...Funseeking women seem to be more sexual to me.
 
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