lizardking82
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Music you guys listen to when you wanna relax
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PeasantPlayer
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You from chicago? House Music was big here
Jack Johnson for laid back peace out surfer music. If you like UK sounds you could try trip hop. Portishead, Massive Attack and Morcheeba are three of the greats. They w made electronic music which just sounds like music. From Australia Angus and Julia Stone are cruisy. We also have a ton of electronic acts like Flight Facilities Tame Impala cut copy, and flume.
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For that vacation, clubbing-with-hawt-girls-on-an-island feeling:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Blue Rodeo (Canadian Band), Pink Floyd, The Police, Billie Holiday.
you guys should try some Aussie hip hop. It's actually got a sense of humour and they don't talk about their d1cks all the time.
I'm having a rare mental health day because my new jobs p1ssed me off so much so I might just raise a finger to the man and play this loud.
I'm having a rare mental health day because my new jobs p1ssed me off so much so I might just raise a finger to the man and play this loud.
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PeasantPlayer
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I'm from chicago to, Spanish women love house, just start dancing and you should be fine
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I like to put this on when I'm lying in bed thinking about life right before I go to sleep. Just gets me in the chilled mood I need to nod off.
Hahaha okay silliness aside, Buckethead has some relaxing songs.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/bHQmDqlv5Rcp
Also Portishead for "Roads" and "Glory Box", both of which are chilled and the latter is also kinda sexy.
Not sure why every artist that produces chilled songs has "head" in the title. I guess head just has relaxing connotations... *cough*
Hahaha okay silliness aside, Buckethead has some relaxing songs.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/bHQmDqlv5Rcp
Also Portishead for "Roads" and "Glory Box", both of which are chilled and the latter is also kinda sexy.
Not sure why every artist that produces chilled songs has "head" in the title. I guess head just has relaxing connotations... *cough*
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
RichardTheFrog
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K-pop always does it for me...
Dash Riprock
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Favorite kicking back Pandora station includes:
John Mayer
Adele
Keane
The Script
The Fray
Imagine Dragons
Ed Sheeran
Shawn Mendes
Sam Smith
Dido
Sarah McLachlan
John Mayer
Adele
Keane
The Script
The Fray
Imagine Dragons
Ed Sheeran
Shawn Mendes
Sam Smith
Dido
Sarah McLachlan
wifehunter
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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This one is calming for me. It’s repetitive but I still like it:
This is also a good one I found recently too:
There’s an artist out there called Blackmill. His older songs are actually pretty soothing too. I listen mostly to EDM so there’s not really much lyrics. Just the music. There’s this one YouTube channel called MrSuicideSheep who uploads a bunch of music that is predominantly calmer type stuff now. He has another channel called SuicideSheeep (yes, with 3 e’s) for whatever reason and is pretty much the same thing except without copyright I’m pretty sure, meaning it’s free.
This one is a really calming one I haven’t listened to in a while:
There’s definitely some others I can think of but SS won’t let me post more than 3 videos. Here’s a list:
YME - Rmx of a Rmx
Tarro - Waveboard
Anything by the artist Oh Wonder, EDEN, or MitiS
Jetta - I’d Love to Change the World (Matstubs Remix). The original for this one is bleh. The Remix is pretty good imo. One in particular that I like from here guys is
Warsongs: The Boy Who Shattered Time (MitiS Remix)
The Glitch Mob has some that could be considered as calming depending on the person.
Feint - Lift (I was addicted to this one for a few months personally)
Draper - Pressure ft. Laura Brehm
SizzleBird - Elixir
Revive Us - Campfire Anthem
Tom Day - Who We Want To Be (anything by Tom Day really)
Wiz Khalifa - The Plan
The last one is rap so it’s a bit different but it’s a calming one for me because he is talking in a reflective way. He talks about money and all that like most rappers, but it’s just a representation of him saying how he never expected to get so famous.
This is also a good one I found recently too:
There’s an artist out there called Blackmill. His older songs are actually pretty soothing too. I listen mostly to EDM so there’s not really much lyrics. Just the music. There’s this one YouTube channel called MrSuicideSheep who uploads a bunch of music that is predominantly calmer type stuff now. He has another channel called SuicideSheeep (yes, with 3 e’s) for whatever reason and is pretty much the same thing except without copyright I’m pretty sure, meaning it’s free.
This one is a really calming one I haven’t listened to in a while:
There’s definitely some others I can think of but SS won’t let me post more than 3 videos. Here’s a list:
YME - Rmx of a Rmx
Tarro - Waveboard
Anything by the artist Oh Wonder, EDEN, or MitiS
Jetta - I’d Love to Change the World (Matstubs Remix). The original for this one is bleh. The Remix is pretty good imo. One in particular that I like from here guys is
Warsongs: The Boy Who Shattered Time (MitiS Remix)
The Glitch Mob has some that could be considered as calming depending on the person.
Feint - Lift (I was addicted to this one for a few months personally)
Draper - Pressure ft. Laura Brehm
SizzleBird - Elixir
Revive Us - Campfire Anthem
Tom Day - Who We Want To Be (anything by Tom Day really)
Wiz Khalifa - The Plan
The last one is rap so it’s a bit different but it’s a calming one for me because he is talking in a reflective way. He talks about money and all that like most rappers, but it’s just a representation of him saying how he never expected to get so famous.
lizardking82
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Thanks to all the guys who are not lazy to post here. I appreciate it as I always am happy to widen my playlist, especially with these type of songs.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Hell yeah. What’s your favorite song?
lizardking82
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I could mention quite a few actually.
Pink Floyd (practically all their songs) but specifically the album "Animals", Keep talking, Sorrow + a lot more from them
The Doors - everything (my favourite band ever, I have 2 of Jim's 3 poetry books, love him, my arm tattoo is the LizardKing, he was the LizardKing)
Rainbow, specifically Rainbow eyes + Catch the rainbow + a lot more, just got to love Dio
AC/DC, everything (watched them live in Spielberg, Austria in 2015, one of the best times of my life)
Piano music, Ludovico Einaudi (Divenire, Una mattina, Nuvole bianche) + Yann Tiersen - Naval + other songs
Classical music, Schopin, Beethoven, Shostakovich, etc
Dire Straits are legends, absolutely everything from them.
Black Sabbath, the calm songs like Planet Caravan and Loner
Elvis Presley, the calm songs
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Sometimes I’ll listen to piano covers for songs that I already have just to see how it is. You get some pretty wacky things with the dubstep ones though, but they’re pretty cool too still. It makes it sound a lot ‘cleaner’, but maybe it’s just me.