lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You from chicago? House Music was big hereI always enjoy listening to house music to relax, house music is now a world wide genre, however the original stuff comes out of Chicago, Illinois USA. If Chicago Dj’s or house music enthusiast don’t approve of house music produced elsewher, then it is not house music . Here is one of many mixes made in Chicago, also new wave and alternative music was a big movement that made groups like Depeche Mode, OMD, The Cure, Pet Shop Boys etc... very popular.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm from chicago to, Spanish women love house, just start dancing and you should be fineThat’s right, I’ve been listening to house music since the early 80’s to this day, never gets old.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hell yeah. What’s your favorite song?Thanks to all the guys who are not lazy to post here. I appreciate it as I always am happy to widen my playlist, especially with these type of songs.
I could mention quite a few actually.Hell yeah. What’s your favorite song?
Sometimes I’ll listen to piano covers for songs that I already have just to see how it is. You get some pretty wacky things with the dubstep ones though, but they’re pretty cool too still. It makes it sound a lot ‘cleaner’, but maybe it’s just me.Piano music