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Why do they call it "phat chord voicing"
I understand what voicing is, but what is the acronym Phat mean?
I understand what voicing is, but what is the acronym Phat mean?
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Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
If you're talking about guitar, I can tell you that a barre chord has a "phatter" tone than the same chord in open form.
The open chord is less defined, whereas the barre is more distinct.
The open chord is less defined, whereas the barre is more distinct.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
It simply means, superb, or first-rate.
The deeper, more practical inference is that the voicings are filled in well with interesting or unexpected extra notes and advanced timing tricks.
On keys, it could mean taking a chord voicing that is normally fully played with the left hand, and instead, playing the lower notes of the chord 1 octave down, and the higher notes of the chord with the right hand. It has the effect of spreading the out and making it fuller.
The deeper, more practical inference is that the voicings are filled in well with interesting or unexpected extra notes and advanced timing tricks.
On keys, it could mean taking a chord voicing that is normally fully played with the left hand, and instead, playing the lower notes of the chord 1 octave down, and the higher notes of the chord with the right hand. It has the effect of spreading the out and making it fuller.
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