"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Music Industry produces AFCs

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It's true.

Let's get our facts down shall we ?

What's the best form of music that sells all around the globe right now ?

R&B,Hip-Hop, Pop, Dance, and the like.

All the above forms of music talk about one single thing, LOVE. Love is a great thing. But a rare thing ,that if you don't know how to handle your emotions, and label "LOVE" in every reaction of your chemicals inside your body, you are bound to be hurt, you are bound to make mistakes just like an AFC. You are bound to hope and fantasise, and make stupid moves, Just Like an AFC.

Why would you do that? BECAUSE BASICALLY MUSIC IS ALL ABOUT LOVE. That the teenagers listen to it with out knowing it, developing into a successfull AFC.


Don't you agree?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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John Meyer (or something like that)... I simply can't stand his music. Not so much his sound, just his message... it sickens me to my very soul.:(

One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.:rolleyes:
 

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hardcore hiphop and some rock dont talk about all that mushy crap.
 

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One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.
Funny comments once again, Spike.

Don't forget "your body is wonderland":rolleyes:
 

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I tend to think that hip-hop and pop teaches teenagers how to dress up like poor people and say things like "wazup homie!".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THATS RIGHT, SO LETS NOT LISTEN TO MUSIC BECAUSE ITS AFC!!!!!11!oneone!!!!1111
 

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Damn... why do you guys worry so much about what makes AFCs? It seems 75% of the posts these days are "Bla bla is soooo AFC". And about 99% of the time those posts are worrying about absolutley nothing. Listen to what you want to. Stop worrying.
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
John Meyer (or something like that)... I simply can't stand his music. Not so much his sound, just his message... it sickens me to my very soul.:(

One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.:rolleyes:

He probably gets laid more than anybody on this board.
 

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u know what, i was just thinking about this...it does moderate a lot of people's behavior and even soften them...like "cry me a river" / JT and every other track by linkin park...just sounds like whining.
 

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You and the rest of the world have bigger problems. I agree with souporman listen to what you want, if you don't like something don't listen to it, and don't complain about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Personally I listen to music for the artistic/musical aspects, such as vocals, production, lyricism (the way the words are constructed into a verse, RATHER THAN the content of those words).

Usually I don't concentrate on whatever "AFC message" they're trying to send, I just like to listen to the music.... dont you?
 

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The topic of AFC musicians comes up every couple months. Musicians can get by with singing romantic songs that show how much in love they are with a girl. Why? Women already perceive musicians as bad boys so when they show a sensitive side women do not perceive them as being weak.

If the normal guy on the street tried that approach he would be labelled as a wimp and shot down immediately.
 

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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
Don't forget "your body is wonderland":rolleyes:

I tried to forget. Thanks for reminding me.:(


Anyways, he might get laid... but there is more to life than getting laid. There is more to being a DJ than getting laid. In short, the dude is a pu$$y-whipped loser (see, I spelled it correctly: "loser") who's life will always revolve around getting women--just like any other AFC.
 
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