"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Music Industry produces AFCs

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It's true.

Let's get our facts down shall we ?

What's the best form of music that sells all around the globe right now ?

R&B,Hip-Hop, Pop, Dance, and the like.

All the above forms of music talk about one single thing, LOVE. Love is a great thing. But a rare thing ,that if you don't know how to handle your emotions, and label "LOVE" in every reaction of your chemicals inside your body, you are bound to be hurt, you are bound to make mistakes just like an AFC. You are bound to hope and fantasise, and make stupid moves, Just Like an AFC.

Why would you do that? BECAUSE BASICALLY MUSIC IS ALL ABOUT LOVE. That the teenagers listen to it with out knowing it, developing into a successfull AFC.


Don't you agree?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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John Meyer (or something like that)... I simply can't stand his music. Not so much his sound, just his message... it sickens me to my very soul.:(

One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.:rolleyes:
 

skeeloo

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hardcore hiphop and some rock dont talk about all that mushy crap.
 

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One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.
Funny comments once again, Spike.

Don't forget "your body is wonderland":rolleyes:
 

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I tend to think that hip-hop and pop teaches teenagers how to dress up like poor people and say things like "wazup homie!".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kidd

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THATS RIGHT, SO LETS NOT LISTEN TO MUSIC BECAUSE ITS AFC!!!!!11!oneone!!!!1111
 

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Damn... why do you guys worry so much about what makes AFCs? It seems 75% of the posts these days are "Bla bla is soooo AFC". And about 99% of the time those posts are worrying about absolutley nothing. Listen to what you want to. Stop worrying.
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
John Meyer (or something like that)... I simply can't stand his music. Not so much his sound, just his message... it sickens me to my very soul.:(

One of his songs goes something like this: "come back to bed, don't leave me alone, let me be your emotional tampon forever and ever, I live to kiss your ass, etc."

Pop music has always been sappy, AFC material. Oh freaking well.:rolleyes:

He probably gets laid more than anybody on this board.
 

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u know what, i was just thinking about this...it does moderate a lot of people's behavior and even soften them...like "cry me a river" / JT and every other track by linkin park...just sounds like whining.
 

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You and the rest of the world have bigger problems. I agree with souporman listen to what you want, if you don't like something don't listen to it, and don't complain about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Personally I listen to music for the artistic/musical aspects, such as vocals, production, lyricism (the way the words are constructed into a verse, RATHER THAN the content of those words).

Usually I don't concentrate on whatever "AFC message" they're trying to send, I just like to listen to the music.... dont you?
 

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The topic of AFC musicians comes up every couple months. Musicians can get by with singing romantic songs that show how much in love they are with a girl. Why? Women already perceive musicians as bad boys so when they show a sensitive side women do not perceive them as being weak.

If the normal guy on the street tried that approach he would be labelled as a wimp and shot down immediately.
 

Spike_the_Dragon

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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
Don't forget "your body is wonderland":rolleyes:

I tried to forget. Thanks for reminding me.:(


Anyways, he might get laid... but there is more to life than getting laid. There is more to being a DJ than getting laid. In short, the dude is a pu$$y-whipped loser (see, I spelled it correctly: "loser") who's life will always revolve around getting women--just like any other AFC.
 
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