Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To all DJ's for us AFC's or at least my AFC A$$ -

Does the music we listen to play with the subconcious mind? I've noticed alot of music I listen to relates to country music. You know, my wife left me, lost my job, then the dog died. :(

I used to listen to rap and heavy metal (Wierd combo huh?) in my earlier days and had no problem with the a$$ ever. I generaly listen to modern alternative nowand have plenty of problems with the a$$. :( I notice that lyrics between rap, metal, alternative, country etc. etc. etc. vary widely.

I don't like rap but have become somewhat of a fan of M&M. It appears his music comes across as he has overcome sh!t, stood up and took it like a man while Fred with Limp B is talking about blue eyes and SH!T!!!

Is this kind of like talking to the baby in the womb, listening to psych tapes while you sleep telling you how good you are? :confused:

Just looking for thoughts..

oh yeay, p.s. sorry for any typo's or missed wrords - my kegerator is about 2 feet from my pc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
 

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Caveman said:
Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
My ex-gf listens to all the emo-whiny rock. When I was in her car she played nothing but that.

I swear to god, some of those songs made me want to kill myself, sad, depressing and just hard to listen to.
 
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Caveman said:
Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
I agree with you about the chick flicks. They are poison for the mind. They manipulate you into thinking that she is so "special" and "better than you". It's just a subtle way of "the golden pu$$y syndrome" to overtake your mind.

I don't know about advertisements though. At first I am interested in reading the product... then I just get really angry. I have no idea why.

And don't get me started on those wussy boy bands.. like maroon 5 and the like.
 

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society is trying to mold its inhabitants into what it wants us to be. dont pay to much attention to what goes on in movies, the lyrics in songs or adverts. know what YOU want and who YOU are and listening to or watching anything will not alter your perception
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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