"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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music and the subconcious

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To all DJ's for us AFC's or at least my AFC A$$ -

Does the music we listen to play with the subconcious mind? I've noticed alot of music I listen to relates to country music. You know, my wife left me, lost my job, then the dog died. :(

I used to listen to rap and heavy metal (Wierd combo huh?) in my earlier days and had no problem with the a$$ ever. I generaly listen to modern alternative nowand have plenty of problems with the a$$. :( I notice that lyrics between rap, metal, alternative, country etc. etc. etc. vary widely.

I don't like rap but have become somewhat of a fan of M&M. It appears his music comes across as he has overcome sh!t, stood up and took it like a man while Fred with Limp B is talking about blue eyes and SH!T!!!

Is this kind of like talking to the baby in the womb, listening to psych tapes while you sleep telling you how good you are? :confused:

Just looking for thoughts..

oh yeay, p.s. sorry for any typo's or missed wrords - my kegerator is about 2 feet from my pc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
 

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Caveman said:
Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
My ex-gf listens to all the emo-whiny rock. When I was in her car she played nothing but that.

I swear to god, some of those songs made me want to kill myself, sad, depressing and just hard to listen to.
 
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Caveman said:
Yes I think it does influence the subconsious. If you listen to wussy music every day you could get into a different mindset. Depressive music can make you feel depressed.
Watch chickmovies every day and you'll start to believe that there will be this special girl out there who is just the one for you.
It is manipulation of the mind. There is one particular branche that uses this to the max. Check out the psychology behind commercials/advertising...
I agree with you about the chick flicks. They are poison for the mind. They manipulate you into thinking that she is so "special" and "better than you". It's just a subtle way of "the golden pu$$y syndrome" to overtake your mind.

I don't know about advertisements though. At first I am interested in reading the product... then I just get really angry. I have no idea why.

And don't get me started on those wussy boy bands.. like maroon 5 and the like.
 

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society is trying to mold its inhabitants into what it wants us to be. dont pay to much attention to what goes on in movies, the lyrics in songs or adverts. know what YOU want and who YOU are and listening to or watching anything will not alter your perception
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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