Muscle Size

[MMA Juan]

Hi Fellas,

A few days ago i was in this training course for work. This girl i'm interested in was gonna be there, so of course i dressed casual but impressive. I've been training for a few years so i have quite a good athletic physique, so i wore a top that showed some definition on my upper body.

While on the course i caught her checkin me out a few times, but when i went over her place that night she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.

The funny thing is however, about a week before she was saying to me how the loves my arms n chest and reckons i look really hot.

That's why the all of a sudden comment i was like WTF- if anything i have lost weight because i'm been cutting up for an upcoming fight.

What do you guys reckon, i think maybe because there were a large group of girls in the course maybe she felt insecure with me dressing like that, there were other girls looking to. What's your opinion playaz? Throw at me what you got, Peace...

 

[mintxx]

Chillax... What the hell would a woman know about your arms? I've had girls tell me similar hot and cold stuff and if you ignore it and assume she wants some sugar in her bowl, bang, she's all over it. For example last night a girl from work let me put my bike in her boot (wink wink), and gave me a lift home after bagging me out all day, next thing I know she has to 'get changed' in a hurry for ballet classes and and at a red light out come her boobs. I'm like 'I can't believe it, lucky your car is tinted' and she replies 'what are you rejecting me now'? Women test you to see if you're insecure, ignore their inconsistencies and relax. You're a man, you're not supposed to be worrying about whether you 'look really hot' for god's sake!

 

[MMA Juan]

Str8 out brother, nice reply

Peace

 

[squirrels]

when i went over her place that night she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.

Maybe she was talking about your cawk.

How's SHE built? Sometimes women with a little excess weight, or very skinny women, will feel insecure with a properly built and proportioned male. She'll be thinking, "He can do better than me looks-wise".

Dont' sweat it. If you're at her place, just bang her. Don't worry about what nonsense comes OUT of her mouth, only what you put INTO it.

 

[spesmilitis]

Maybe she was neg hitting you. Maybe your too hot for her and she knows it.

If it was true, I don't think she would be that direct about it even if she mentioned it at all.

 

[EFFORT]

Women test you to see if you're insecure, ignore their inconsistencies and relax. You're a man, you're not supposed to be worrying about whether you 'look really hot' for god's sake!

i agree