“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MMA Juan

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Hi Fellas,

A few days ago i was in this training course for work. This girl i'm interested in was gonna be there, so of course i dressed casual but impressive. I've been training for a few years so i have quite a good athletic physique, so i wore a top that showed some definition on my upper body.

While on the course i caught her checkin me out a few times, but when i went over her place that night she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.

The funny thing is however, about a week before she was saying to me how the loves my arms n chest and reckons i look really hot.

That's why the all of a sudden comment i was like WTF- if anything i have lost weight because i'm been cutting up for an upcoming fight.

What do you guys reckon, i think maybe because there were a large group of girls in the course maybe she felt insecure with me dressing like that, there were other girls looking to. What's your opinion playaz? Throw at me what you got, Peace... :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mintxx

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Chillax... What the hell would a woman know about your arms? I've had girls tell me similar hot and cold stuff and if you ignore it and assume she wants some sugar in her bowl, bang, she's all over it. For example last night a girl from work let me put my bike in her boot (wink wink), and gave me a lift home after bagging me out all day, next thing I know she has to 'get changed' in a hurry for ballet classes and and at a red light out come her boobs. I'm like 'I can't believe it, lucky your car is tinted' and she replies 'what are you rejecting me now'? Women test you to see if you're insecure, ignore their inconsistencies and relax. You're a man, you're not supposed to be worrying about whether you 'look really hot' for god's sake!
 

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Str8 out brother, nice reply

Peace
 

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MMA Juan said:
when i went over her place that night she made a comment along the lines of you look big, but not attractive big.
Maybe she was talking about your cawk. :whistle:

How's SHE built? Sometimes women with a little excess weight, or very skinny women, will feel insecure with a properly built and proportioned male. She'll be thinking, "He can do better than me looks-wise".

Dont' sweat it. If you're at her place, just bang her. Don't worry about what nonsense comes OUT of her mouth, only what you put INTO it. :D
 

spesmilitis

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Maybe she was neg hitting you. Maybe your too hot for her and she knows it.

If it was true, I don't think she would be that direct about it even if she mentioned it at all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mintxx said:
Women test you to see if you're insecure, ignore their inconsistencies and relax. You're a man, you're not supposed to be worrying about whether you 'look really hot' for god's sake!

i agree
 
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