Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Muscle group deloading?

Quiksilver

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Hey guys

Been plowing along now for awhile, and last week my bench press was a little weak, combine that with some failed assistance movements, it's time for a deload week.

Wondering if it makes sense to deload a certain muscle group (chest, shoulders, tris) and keep hammering away at legs & back in the same week?

cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being_the_Don

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Quiksilver said:
Hey guys

Been plowing along now for awhile, and last week my bench press was a little weak, combine that with some failed assistance movements, it's time for a deload week.

Wondering if it makes sense to deload a certain muscle group (chest, shoulders, tris) and keep hammering away at legs & back in the same week?

cheers

Makes sense, remember that some muscle groups will fatigue sooner than others depending on how much they are worked.
 

EFFORT

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Either way will work depending on how your routine is setup. You can deload everything and give your entire body a rest or you can do particular muscle groups.
 

TheAsianLoverReturns

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CNS overload. Alternate exercises.

Week 1: barbell bench press
Week 2: dumbbell bench press
Week 3: hammer smith chest press

It's also a good idea to take a 1 week break every 8 weeks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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