Friend came up from out of town went partying all week got 5 different numbers but have no clue who's who. What should I say when I'm callin these girls? I have no idea which girl did what or what I said to them. But some I know were pretty solid #'s. Should I ask- "which one were you?"
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
multiple numbers last night
- Thread starter jp98502
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Would you ever point a loaded gun at yourself and pull the trigger? No, you wouldnt. Dont ask them anything like that. Talk to them as if you remember them, set something up and embrace the suprise.jp98502 said:
Lol ya that prolly wouldnt be a good idea. Talk to them as if I remember them? I dont remember anything at all about the whole weekend lol. How should I start? Like this?: "Hi Allison its James" and start my phone game from there?
Ring up and take a tone like you got a pretty good understanding of her the time you met and got her number, then ask her if she has a nickname or what do her mates call her, then she'l say 'nah im just 'kate'' or whatever 
Ive used this one a few times and its never failed on me.
Ive used this one a few times and its never failed on me.
PectoralisMajor
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good advice above
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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You have to send them pics of you so that they can decide if they like your look , if they do you are in...jp98502 said:
I wouldn't quite put it THAT way, but I don't think it would be an issue if you were to say that you talked to a million people this weekend and you need a little reminder on what you two talked about. Then you can just go into the "Oh yeah!" thing.jp98502 said:
Besides, nothing says red flag more than a girl who gets pissed just because you're a social guy...